Boring the position of the spoon? Not if we find a way to spice it up. Sitting, in the tub, inverted … here are four ways to make the spoon much sexier.
Easy to practice, the spoon position does not require twisting in all directions or being acrobatic. Classic among the positions of Kamasutra, it is often considered the position of the lazy. It is the one to which we turn when we are clearly lazy to move in the morning, when we are tired. “vanilla sex” – make love slowly and tenderly.
So, boring the position of the spoon? Not necessarily ! Believe it or not, the hottest sex can happen in this comfortable position. There are many ways to spice up the spoon by varying the basic Kamasutra position a little. We offer you four ways to reinvent the position of the spoon.
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The inverted spoon
Finally, what we are looking for when spooning is more the proximity of the body than the fact of being with your back to your partner. Nothing therefore prevents us from twisting this position to test something else. So we turn to face our partner and pull his body against us during penetration. We intertwine our legs and let our comings and goings match before reaching ecstasy.
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The spoon under water
This position is ideal in the bathtub (you can always try in the shower but we cannot guarantee the result!). We sit between the legs of his partner and we guide the shower head between our legs to stimulate his clitoris. The partner can thus touch our breasts, kiss our neck and our neck. If the jet of the pommel is not adjustable and too intense, a gentle massage of the clitoris will be enough to increase the excitement.
The spoon to practice sodomy
The intimate spoon posture makes it possible to test sodomy gently, for the first time. The weight of our partner is not on us, it is easier to take it slow. This position can thus be reassuring. Our partner will be able to caress us and have access to other parts of our body such as the breasts or the clitoris.
The sitting spoon
Who says the spoon can only be done lying down? You can also try the alternative sitting, on the edge of the bed for example. The sensations will be just as intense, with the only difference that we can more easily lead the dance and guide the sex of our partner. He or she will be able to have easy access to our clitoris. Some would say that it looks like the position of the chair, but more comfortable all the same.
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created on February 28, 2020