"The longer it is, the better it is": does the saying always say the truth? Slow sex and tantrism have relegated the quickie to the rank of selfish sexual practices devoid of any romanticism. Let’s restore her coat of arms to quick sex and (not always) well done.
The quickie does not always have a good reputation. For some time now, the idea of a slower sexuality, where you make pleasure last so that you can focus on your sensations expands. Slow sex enthusiasts take their time for relationships that are more egalitarian for women. While the quickie, this brief and spontaneous report, would be a purely masculine (and selfish) fantasy, destined to gain pleasure as quickly as possible. The truth is that sometimes we prefer a quick and satisfying snack to a feast. It's the same for sex.
1. Rediscover the ardor of yesteryear
The quickie is spontaneous sex, which responds to a primary need: to do good without waiting. It is the bestial and animal side that we like. So even if you want to make a quickie, you might as well do it according to the rules of the art: wild, intense, in a hurry. And no, quick sex is not just for singles. It is for all those who wish to spice up their sexuality. For couples, this is an opportunity to rediscover the passion and ardor of the beginnings and wake up your libido.
2. The quickie can be done anywhere
If the quickie can be done comfortably in a bed or on a sofa, there is nothing more exciting than tasting the unusual, in private or public places. At work, in the shower, in the car, the swimming pool or the jacuzzi, in the toilets of an airplane or in the garden of step-mom, at friends … In short, the main advantage of quick sex is that it is all-terrain! The risk of being caught at any time and defying the taboos makes it even more exciting.
3. And anytime
The whole point of sex "quickly done well" is that it can happen at any time of the day. We break the routine sometimes installed, forgetting the leg part in the air on Saturday evening after The Voice and the vanilla sex on Sunday morning. Finally, the quickie requires a certain letting go, that of not having control over everything, of letting your impulses speak. A little bit that puts us late for our date, a quick sex on the kitchen table in full meal preparation …
4. The quickie for a fun break
A real quick hit lasts 5-10 minutes, no more. Just long enough to tear off our clothes and hug. Quick sex allows us to have a little moment of pleasure, to take a break and very often, to reduce our stress in the process. And above all: it is fast and efficient (or not). And that's sometimes all we ask!
5. We forget the orgasm
If the quickie sometimes has a bad reputation, it is because at the time, the man had to cum very quickly to prove his virility, and the pleasure of the woman was left behind. It is therefore high time to remember that, in the same way that orgasm should not be an ultimate goal during intercourse, for the quickie either. It is not necessarily penetrating either. Blowjobs, cunnilingus, petting and duo masturbation are just as good. With the quickie, we prefer adrenaline and excitement to orgasm.
The best sex positions for the quickie
The two partners are standing and our legs are wrapped around each other. Little tip: you can put your feet on the bed or the sofa to help yourself. Then it's up to the pools to play.
Standing, our partner comes to stick to us. This position arouses the erotic imagination and can be performed everywhere. Perfect for a quickie therefore!
The woman climbs on a piece of furniture (work plan, washing machine …). The main thing is that she is sitting cross-legged and using her arms to hold herself. Her partner stands in front of her, then she wraps her legs tightly around her waist.
So rather slow sex or quick sex ?
See also: What is "slow sex"?