5 relationship mistakes that we should have through 30 through

The first time to be in love, the first tongue kiss, the first friend, the first true love (or at least what we thought it was …) – every woman has her own memories of that. But almost everyone triggers both positive and negative feelings.

Because in addition to all the exciting and beautiful things that we associate with our first partnerships and partners, we have all done a lot that we regretted afterwards – and that is why we would no longer do today. To name just a few examples …

5 relationship mistakes that almost everyone made (should)

1. Brackets

Constantly on the phone with him, want to do everything with him and get the crisis if he doesn't answer for a day – classic! And a very obvious result if you combine uncertainty and self-doubt with great love and fear of loss.

2. Intentionally make him jealous

Flirt conspicuously inconspicuously with someone else and only have eyes for how the man next to us gets more and more restless and annoyed – those were the days! When we couldn't think of anything better to assure us of his love and get his attention …

3. Dance after his pipe

If he really wants sex, he gets sex. Does he find our favorite sweater unsexy? Put it in the trash! And clearly we think it's great to watch football with his buddies. Oh dear, we sometimes showed a lot of suffering. But what's the matter ?! After all, everyone has to learn to be confident and authentic. We can stand up for ourselves and our wishes today and know that this is exactly what makes us his dream woman.

4. Stalking

Secretly check his cell phone and browse his private belongings – well, of course nobody is really proud of that. But at the beginning of every relationship career there is learning to accept limits, giving others freedom and also becoming more secure and independent …

5. Try to change it

If he just makes the hair a little bit different, becomes a little more sensitive and also discovers his weakness for drama series at some point, then, yes, he is my dream man and we fit perfectly! Hm, yes, we still think partly today. Fortunately, we no longer try to turn him into someone he is not. Not because we are less idealistic today than we used to be. But because we have now also learned to love the imperfect and imperfect. On others – and on ourselves.