Whether within a couple or a marriage, these 5 signs indicate that your relationship is going through a major crisis.
All couples and marriages can experience ups and downs, that’s the nature of any relationship, whether it’s romantic or friendly. But sometimes there are signs that don’t lie. Here are 5 things that betray an existential crisis in your relationship, according to the website specializing in romantic relationships Yourtango.
You keep your feelings to yourself
While it is completely normal to face disagreement with your partner or even to feel negative feelings towards them, it is however more problematic to want to keep this to yourself.
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Indeed, communication being the basis of any relationship, it is appropriate to share the problems with your other half.
You keep arguing, in vain
Once again, being faced with arguments in your relationship or marriage is specific to any relationship. On the other hand, it is more worrying to see that disagreements are increasing without leading to a compromise or an improvement in the situation.
Result: your partner may feel a lack of listening on your part, which can have repercussions on the bond of trust that unites you. Stay tuned to avoid declaring a constant state of war within the couple.
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Your intimate moments are less frequent (and less intense)
Beyond the vagaries of libido, which is specific to everyone, certain periods, such as pregnancy or the time when you are raising young children, can be less conducive to intimate relationships. But if this tendency persists for a long time, it may be a sign that your relationship is beginning to succumb to a certain form of routine in which the lover is neglected.
A situation that is harmful to the balance of your relationship and to which you can quickly get used to. Enough to increase the risk of anxiety in your partner and lead to behavior such as infidelity, or even divorce, according to our colleagues. Rekindle the flame.
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You settle into a mechanical (and risky) routine
If your relationship is starting to become reduced to household chores and to-do lists, it may be a sign of letting go that has gone on for too long.
Where have the moments of humor and madness gone for which you fell for each other? It is urgent to find you, at the risk of this leading to a real existential couple crisis..
You feel more and more misunderstood by your other half
Maintaining the connection between you and your partner is probably the ultimate sign that your relationship is doing well. The loss of this unique bond and the increase in a feeling of incomprehension on the part of one of the two parties can pose a threat to your romantic balance.
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Opening up to others, discussing deep topics and approaching problems with the intention of wanting to move forward is essential. In short, communicate.
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