5 tips for hot phone sex

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7 tips for hot phone sex

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Corona strikes particularly hard for couples who can hardly see each other or even have a long-distance relationship. The classic phone sex can then sweeten the one or the other (shepherd) hour. And this is how it is done.

by Linda Berger

Social distancing, distance rules, contact bans … Corona has completely changed our lives. While some can barely bear their partner, couples who have a long-distance relationship have completely different problems: No sex. Sure, masturbation helps a little over the dry spell, but let’s be honest: It’s just not the same. But unfortunately it doesn’t help, alternatives are needed. In addition to sextoys, sexting and good old porn, we are now digging deep into the dirty drawer and throwing phone sex back into the race. It’s almost a little retro, but old-school or not: the erotic dialogue in any case ensures more closeness than the vibrator does. But doesn’t it make you feel strange? How do you even go about that?

1. Be brave

To even dare to pick up the phone and start the slippery conversation takes a lot of courage and effort. Therefore, it can help to feel in advance whether your partner would like it. That takes a little pressure.

2. Head out

The first time you feel insecure, you don’t want to go wrong and somehow be good. It’s the same with phone sex. But: too much planning and too much thinking is not sexy and often ruins the erotic whispering. Just keep in mind: If it goes wrong, it will at least have been fun.

3. Every beginning doesn’t have to be difficult

The best thing to do is to just start when you are on the phone anyway. You could tell him how much you miss him and what you would like to do with him now. Often that is enough and the matter develops on its own.

4. No porn dialogues

Anyone who thinks phone sex equals dirty talk is wrong. If you usually don’t moan “F *** me really hard” in bed, you don’t have to give porn dialogues on the phone either. That would probably upset your partner rather than turn them on. And you don’t have to make it that hard for yourself. Instead, try to describe what you would do with your partner in bed now … “I kiss your neck and want to suck your earlobe while my hand slides slowly …”

5. Head cinema on

Try to imagine things. For example, how you touch, how it feels, smells and tastes. That makes the whole thing even more intense …

6. How you say what you say

Exact, decorative descriptions stimulate the imagination. Who makes a flat: “I’ll touch your chest” really hot. But a “I caress your breast and caress your hard nipples with my tongue” the whole thing in a lower pitch or a sexy breath … Makes a difference, a big one even. Detailed descriptions of whether you are standing, lying or kneeling, where your hands are and what you do with his * her firm bottom and what sexy lingerie you have put on are the Ahhhhs and Ohhhhhs during phone sex.

7. Bring the toy

Yes baby, sex toys are also welcome to play along with phone sex. Use whatever turns you on. Most of the time, the other person on the other listener finds the idea of ​​you with a vibrator very stimulating. You can of course also send each other photos. There are no limits to phone sex. Maybe you learn things from your partner that you didn’t know before or you dare to do things that you might not otherwise have dared. Just try. Worth it!