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7 problems in a relationship that we should normalize
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Let's be honest, every relationship has its ups and downs. It's not always all pink and sunshine and that's totally normal!
We have to get used to the fact that certain problems and difficulties are part of our relationship. Probably every woman knows the feeling when our partner does not understand what we mean or we prefer to blame the other for our mistakes. The most beautiful are of course the intimate and happy moments, but the others also shape our relationship in a special way. Here are seven putative problems with our partner that we should normalize.
Other ideas
Even if our relationship is going great and we are completely blown away by our loved ones, we don't always have to be on the same wavelength. It is totally normal to have different interests and ideas. We don't have to suddenly find every hobby of our loved one super exciting. If our: e partner: pursues his interests, we can relax on the sofa and do nothing!
Hold the partner responsible
Who does not know it, we would have been doing the washing up and forgetting it. Damn it! You can then quickly blame your partner for that. This phenomenon occurs in every good relationship and is absolutely normal. As long as we admit every now and then when we make mistakes, there is nothing wrong with the little things.
Discussions
Different opinions and discussions are preprogrammed? Absolutely normal! You cannot always agree, and it is perfectly okay to discuss different views as long as you do it respectfully. No reason to let the cups fly.
doubt
We love our partner and we are actually inseparable, but sometimes we have doubts. Is that really the person who is a great fit for me? What do I really want? These doubts appear in almost every relationship and are quite normal. Once these concerns are found to be unfounded, we are only stronger with our loved ones.
Need time for yourself
We are on cloud nine and love spending time with our partners! However, it is just as normal to want time alone from time to time. Self care! Sometimes it just feels good to just do what we like and to recharge your batteries. If we are satisfied and happy ourselves, this can also be felt in our relationship.
Physical affection
After the wild start of our relationship, it is now more calm. What now? The schedule is full, we are very busy and sometimes we put time with our partner a little bit back. Good news: It's not just us! We should set our priorities in such a way that we have more togetherness again and our passion for one another is rekindled.
Bad habits
Are there socks on the floor all the time and the plate could also be put straight into the dishwasher? Don't worry, it's no different in other relationships! Even if we love our partner, we have to accept their bad habits.