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This belief helps you to find your great love
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You've been looking for Mr. Right for a long time, but he just doesn't want to show up? Maybe you just need to turn your mind off in a different direction.
Sometimes the only thing that is lacking is our attitude if we cannot find a partner. We often underestimate the power our thoughts have and how much they influence our charisma.
Flirting expert Nina Deißler knows what beliefs we use to increase our chances of finding a partner.
"I can get to know my dream partner anywhere and am therefore open to encounters"
The principle behind this sentence: It helps you take off your own blinkers and give people a second chance. The expert: "Why not make everyone smile for a few days with whom you have contact? And accept and meet every partner proposal? You will be surprised what happens."
Do you want to formulate your own belief?
Of course you can – choose a sentence that gives you courage and boosts your self-confidence. For example, "If, then" sentences are well suited. But it is important to believe the affirmations too. "It doesn't help to keep telling yourself how great you are if you don't believe in it yourself. Otherwise you will say to yourself twice as often afterwards how stupid it is and that it won't work anyway", says Deissler.
And what do I do with the sentence?
Say it one or more times a day. Loud or soft, in front of the mirror or on the couch. Before a date or on the subway. No matter. The more you internalize the words, the bigger your Effect! "You can improve from week to week," says the expert.
So,if that is so then Let's start our beliefs today, right?
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In her book "Relationship Status: Complicated" Nina Deißler gives a lot more helpful relationship tips. Knaur Verlag is available for 12.99 euros from Amazon.
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