As we bear the brunt of the Covid-19 epidemic, a new trend has emerged that is undermining our romantic relationships. This is the apocalypsing. Explanations.
The coronavirus epidemic has completely changed our behavior in terms of health, but also in terms of love. Romantic relationships are in turmoil today, especially because of the two confinements we went through, but also because of the curfew, which greatly complicates dating. As a result, singles meet online and spend more time talking with their new crush. Moreover, in this particular context of a pandemic, many of them have redefined their expectations when it comes to love. And sometimes, some get carried away a little too quickly …
Apocalypsing, the Covid-19 love trend
Treat each relationship as if it was the last, and plan something very serious with the person you just met. Apocalypsing is that. According to the dating service Plenty of Fish, this romantic trend is extremely common these days and it is even on the rise. People who practice apocalypsing don't really realize this. They live in their bubble, idealize the person they have just met and sometimes project themselves very far with them.
Why is apocalypsing a problem?
In these times of pandemic, singles want stability, comfort, support, and some are ready to give the first person they meet a chance. Getting into a relationship has this very reassuring side and that is what everyone is looking for: being accompanied so as not to suffer from loneliness. The problem is, they idealize this person and ignore all of their flaws. They may not be compatible, but they still believe in it because they don't want to be alone. In fact, since we've greatly reduced physical contact, the little expressions of affection we receive can make us addicted very quickly.
The bad news is that apocalypsing is probably not a good starting point for a long, happy relationship. First, because it is impossible to know everything about someone in a matter of weeks, and second, because so often we end up considering something serious with someone who is not for us. The breakup can then be brutal, as apocalypsing can lead a person to become possessive, dependent and clingy towards his or her partner. But don't give up hope! Apocalypsing can sometimes have some nice surprises in store for us …
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