After a few months or years of relationship, sexual practice may become routine. Are you bored in bed? Here’s how to let your partner know.
The prospect of being faced with routine scares a lot of people young couples. And for good reason, after a few months or years together, it happens that one of the partners regrets that sexual practice has become less frequent or less exhilarating only at the start of the relationship. When this is the case, there is many ways to fix it. But in any case, it is extremely important not to keep your feelings to yourself.
At first sight, to underline the fact that it is necessary to communicate may seem obvious. However, sometimes it is not not the preferred solutionespecially because we fear of hurting others. Nevertheless, to be silent is to accept that the situation persists. At the beginning of July, a man named Matthew confided his frustration in the columns of the British version of HuffPost. He explained that he was bored in bed with his wife, with whom he has lived for eighteen months.
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The importance of communicating with your partner
Informed of this situation, marriage counselor Nina Jellinek first issued a warning: Matthew cannot hope to solve his problem without having recourse to dialogue with his companion. Then, she found it necessary to ask yourself certain questions when faced with a similar situation. For example : My feeling of dissatisfaction is it exclusively present during my sexual relations ? Or am I led to experiment similar emotions outside the intimate setting?
Discussing it with your spouse will help take stock, continues Nina Jellinek with HuffPost. Maybe this one feels the same, buthe doesn’t dare talk to you about it. Or, it is possible that he grants less importance to what happens under the duvet. It is also possible that he does not have no idea what you’re going through and he’ll be amazed when you tell him.
In any case, talk about it – with benevolence, respect and honesty – should offer each of the partners the possibility of say what’s on your mind. It’s two thatan ordeal like this is overcome…or, on the contrary, we decide to end the relationship.
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