Whether as a foreplay or solo – a blowjob drives most men crazy. And with these ten tips it gets even hotter!
As nice as it is to feel your partner inside you – a little variety in bed is always good! oral sex is much more than just a foreplay. Properly exercised, it means Love, lust and lifestyle pure! Just as our partners take us to the summit of pleasure with cunnilingus, for example, we can take them to the Climax bring. Oral sex is particularly pleasurable when both people are spoiled at the same time, such as with the sex position 69.
The prerequisite: you really have fancy it. Anyone who only blows because he or she feels obligated cannot “perform” really well. Then let it go. After all, we are all free to decide whether we want that or not – a guilty conscience is absolutely out of place.
If you decide to have a fellatio – here are the best tips:
1. Finding a good position for the blowjob
On it, under it, next to it… First of all: Make yourself comfortable during oral sex, because the comedy shouldn’t be over after two minutes. You can position yourself between his legs, but you can also ask him to talk about you in the quadruped stand to place. Sometimes it’s also nice if he’s in a chair or on the bed during oral sex sits and you kneel in front of him. So you can blow unhindered. If your back or neck hurts in a position: bring it variation into the matter – and simply place him or you differently. I’m sure he won’t mind!
2. Look him in the eye every now and then during the blowjob
Most men are turned on when their friends do it to them blow job look into the eyes Also, they like it when the other person makes them feel like they having fun has – and doesn’t just do it for his sake. And as I said, that should be the top priority: Only do what you really want to do. Otherwise nobody will end up having fun.
3. The right tongue acrobatics during a blowjob
The question is yes: Should you suck very hard, lick, really blow or just suck gently to spoil him during oral sex? The answer is: Every man likes it differently. A good idea is to just give him a try to ask about his needs. You are his partners, so don’t be shy! He can demonstrate the desired intensity on your fingers, for example. Get creative: For example, only work with yours in between tongue tip and rides along the bottom of his penis, then to the tip, then back down. You should also wear the perfect blowjob saliva not save. That’s how it feels best.
4. Take your hand to it
Using only your mouth for blowjobs is not only tiring, it’s rarely effective. Use your hand to help during oral sexby forming a ring with your index finger and thumb or all fingers and so that your mouth lengthens. Looks like some kind of megaphone. In between you can hold your hand in half pirouette movement rotate back and forth. Stroke them from time to time too inner sides of his thighs.
One of the most important tips: Always alternate your movements during oral sex so that he doesn’t know what’s going to happen next. Blowing is similar to cunnilingus: Variety is exciting – and surprises ultra hot.
5. Recognizing and avoiding gag reflexes during blowjobs
If you go through the ups and downs retching developed, in between simply continues with the hand or changes the angle, in which the penis enters your mouth. Never accept agony or pain!
By the way: That the penis can be completely put in the mouth is an unrealistic fantasy, created by sex in porn. In reality, hardly anyone can. So don’t worry if it doesn’t work! This is not a requirement for him to have an orgasm. You don’t have to orient yourself to a porn. Do what you are comfortable with. Then he will have fun too.
6. Don’t forget the testicles during the blowjob
In the heat of the moment, we tend to forget his balls. They can give him so much pleasure if you involve them. While one hand is on his shaft, you can use the other to Gently caress testicles. You can at that Area between the anus and testicles begin and then slowly feel your way forward. Men also like it when theirs is theirs Licks eggs or puts them in their mouths. While doing so, run your tongue lightly along the underside!
7. Don’t swallow on spasm
He climaxes during oral sex – and then? Whether you want to swallow his sperm is up to you. Some don’t mind sperm at all, others choke. Even if some men like it: You shouldn’t force yourself to do anything – not even for the sake of your partner! If you want to give it a try: spitting the semen into a handkerchief is also completely okay! Just put a pack next to the bed. Of course, it’s also okay if you don’t want his sperm in your mouth at all. It has nothing to do with love, just how sensitive you are to taste.
8. The ice cube trick
take one ice cubes in your mouth or drink a warm drink, before you spoil him. Some men like cold or heat – and this makes it easier for them to climax.
9. Good blowjob vibes
When you have his penis in your mouth, start humming softly. What’s the point? You create one vibration! It may sound strange at first, but we know from our sex toys how good vibration can be.
10. Draw!
Admittedly, here’s a slightly unusual trick for oral sex – but it’s quite effective: Ties pantyhose or a ribbon around his penis and pulls it a little tighter while blowing – of course only as long as it is comfortable for him. Due to the pressure can be down Increase pleasure and intensity of orgasm.
The expert interview: “Blowjobs? Most women can’t”
In her book “Lets Talk About Sex”, author Jana Förster tells men what they want from a blowjob, where they see potential for improvement. We’re curious.
BRIGITTE: Ms. Förster, you interviewed men who claim that many women don’t know how a good blowjob works. Can this really be?
Jana Förster: I confess: I was very surprised myself. In fact, many women unfortunately seem to overestimate their fellatio qualities quite a bit. Men often feel “worked out” on this point because women think that foreplay simply “belongs”. They don’t do it out of their own interest.
Which men’s statement surprised you the most?
The basic tenor of the answers was surprising: namely that on average only ten to twenty percent of women can do a good blowjob. But the simple “in-out game” is not enough for men to describe the whole thing as successful. In most cases it just works the same way. It is not that difficult to increase your own lust and that of the man. One man summed it up pretty well. He said, “Blow like you women want to be licked.”
Is it even possible to generalize about male preferences in fellatio?
Yes, on this point. I’ve heard from all men that they enjoyed it more when the woman was having fun. When passion, lust and pleasure could be felt on both sides. Then men feel desired. They want to feel that the woman likes it herself and is not just doing it for his sake. The technique is not so important here, the secret is pleasure.
Why are men so into blowjobs anyway?
It’s about power and dominance. Almost every man finds it extremely hot when a woman kneels in front of him and “serves” him. He feels wanted and powerful, especially when she looks into his eyes and lets him watch as she spoils him. Also, a blowjob is the closest thing to the feeling of intercourse (as part of foreplay). And it is very varied for a man: it is warm, the tongue, the lips and ideally the hands give many different stimuli. Even more than sexual intercourse itself.
What do you think is the ultimate blowjob tip?
Oh there are some. The most important tip is: have fun! When it comes to blowjobs, women should enjoy having the man’s lust in their hands or between their lips. You should play with it and take advantage of the power of having your orgasm in your hands. This also brings a woman excellent feelings of pleasure and great fun.
Can you be a little more specific…?
Most of the time, the woman has one hand free when blowing, which of course can be used to caress herself. You can play with your tongue while blowing, test different pressure intensities with your lips, tongue and hands. And don’t forget the testicles! They are very sensitive and for many men caressing is an absolute pleasure kick. Another note on the finale: Swallowing sperm is only horny for men if the woman really wants it herself and is into it. If she swallows it only for his sake or even chokes while doing so, men are completely turned off by it. In this case: Please let it be!
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