Boomerang people: do you know them too …?

Have you ever dealt with a boomerang man? Then you probably know that this type of person brings nothing but stress and unrest into our lives …

As a throwing tool, a boomerang is a pretty brilliant invention: disappears and keeps coming back. However, people are known not to be tools, but … uh … people. If they behave like a boomerang, it's usually not that cool. After all, we want continuity and reliability in our relationships. What should we do with someone who reappears and reappears in our lives without warning as it suits him ?!

Unfortunately there are enough men and women who behave like a boomerang towards others. As a rule, they don't mean it badly, because they simply don't think about what they're actually doing to their fellow human beings and what pain they may even cause. Five reasons why you should do the bending yourself – and NOT return – at the slightest sign of a boomerang personality.

That's why you should avoid boomerang people

1. You are immature

Boomerang people are about as reflective and prudent as two-year-olds: they only see their own needs and are only looking for their pleasure. To take responsibility? Nothing! The only difference: two-year-olds usually notice when their playmate cries after they knocked down their tower. They learn from this that they are not allowed to knock down towers of joke and madness because they use them to make others sad. Boomerang people are long gone when someone cries …

2. You are self-centered

Nothing against a healthy dose of selfishness – but boomerang people overdo it! And while they are circling around themselves, they don't even notice who they are trodden on. For them, other people are just stations where they dock and leave. Once away, don't think about it anymore.

3. You are unable to relate

With a boomerang person, it is next to impossible to build a long-term, stable relationship. Ultimately, this requires mutual interest, consideration and willingness to compromise. And boomerang people are obviously not ready for this.

4. They take advantage of you

No matter how well you take care of yourself and beware, boomerang people almost always manage to take advantage of others and draw energy from them. If you don't have a little bit of boomerang in yourself, you will inevitably lose out when you come into contact with boomerang people.

5. You cannot rely on them

It is obvious: You cannot count on boomerang people. You come and go when it is them fits, not if you you need. The only reliable thing about them is their unpredictability.

6. You are (probably) just an option for them

Boomerang people usually try to keep several people warm for their purposes. Even if they tell you you're the only one, you can be pretty sure that you are not.

7. You earn MORE

Life is short and our strength is limited – so we should devote our time and energy to those who deserve it. Sure you can have a fun evening with a boomerang guy when you are on a boomerang trip yourself. But to open your heart to someone and really get involved with them, you can confidently make higher demands – after all, you are more than a station.