Couples: these crippling lies that can destroy your relationship

Being honest with your partner is essential for the relationship to work. Admittedly, there are indeed certain lies which can pass like the fact of lie about your nickname when you were a kid. However, lies are often harmful to a relationship, especially certain lies that can directly shake the trust in the couple. A relationship without trust is no longer necessary after all!

Relationship expert Jessica Alderson confided in the DailyMail re those big lies. Of course, the first lie that will never pass is lies about an extramarital affair. Next come all the lies about money. The expert says that lying to your partner about your finances, even if it is your own money, can destroy trust. Come next the lies about where you are and what you are doing. “In healthy relationships, it should never be necessary to lie about where you are,” explains this specialist. Here it is not a question of accountable all the time about what you’re doing and where you are.

Do not lie about his condition

Although it is strange, Jessica Alderson says that lying to your partner is strongly discouraged “pretending to be fine when it’s not“. You have every right to admit that you don’t feel good in the relationship, for example. “Some people lie to themselves and other people saying they are happy in a relationship when they are not becausethey are afraid of being alone“, says the specialist.

Jessica Alderson emphasizes the importance of choose between break up or settle problems with your partner. Lying and above all lying to oneself on this point is therefore in no way an option. Come next lies about past relationships. “Sometimes people lie about their past relationships to protect their partner. However, if it’s about comparing your current partner to your previous partners, it’s better not to than to lie about it” , says this specialist.