Couples: these signs that show that you are going through more than just a crisis

A couple who survive a serious crisis comes out stronger and more united. This presupposes that both partners have deployed efforts to save their couple. Sometimes the scenario is quite different because the couple is simply a lost cause. Signs allow distinguish a surmountable crisis of an inevitable end. Silence and indifference are the first signs to fear in the event of a crisis. The crisis can still find a happy ending as long as communication between partners works.

Often, shouting and quarreling are preferable to indifferenceat least one knows what the other is thinking. Indifference can manifest itself in indirect dodges to avoid solving the problem. If you or your partner start delaying the time to go home as much as possible, It is not a good sign ! Ditto when one of the partners shows that he or she prefers to exercise at the gym or kill time behind your computer. If in addition, he or she refuses any discussion about the angry subject, it is a sign that your partner wish for separation without daring to admit it.

The sign that says the end is inevitable

In some cases, the signs are so obvious that it is useless to try to get false hopes. This is the case when you and your partner know the source of the problembut you know full well that you, or he, cannot not override this problem. Infidelity, unrequited desire for a childdomestic violence, in-laws or alcoholism… are all complex situations that often turn out to be unsustainable for one of the partners. Although these situations do not always lead to separation in rare cases, it turns out to be difficult to mend the couple. Often a break to part smoothly or to pick up the pieces imposes itself.

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