Couples: this sign that determines the future of your relationship

Building a relationship is not an easy thing. Moreover, the ideal for couples would be to know from the outset if the relationship will last or not. A study determined that the first date was decisive for the future of the relationship. This is the survey conducted by dating app Happn which led to this conclusion. Indeed, the first date already allows you to have an idea about the future of the relationship.

According to this survey, the perfect date for the French would be “a walk, a chic dinner or even a cozy evening at home”. In other words, having a successful first date means walking towards a happy relationship. After all, the first date is like the foundations of the future relationship. It should also be noted that this first meeting is particularly rich in emotion. Stress, excitement, curiosity, fear, … all the feelings are present and mix. Generally, it does not take long to know if the current is flowing or not. Which then brings you to the conclusion: if you want to see the person again or not.

It’s all about the connection

The sign that determines the future of the relationship is the connection you feel on the first date, according to the review Scientific Reports. This research is based on the principle of speed-dating. 46 romantic dates had been organized for the needs of this experience. The few minutes of each appointment made it possible to collect behavioral and physiological data.

The scientists in charge of this research discovered that the feeling of “connection” during the first appointment was decisive for the future. “A particular connection and a positive judgment during a first date would be linked to a synchrony“, according to the reports. Clearly, it is aboutgood synchronization of the nervous systems as well as movements during the encounter. This coordination is the basis of the feeling of connection between the two people who are likely to build a relationship later.