Double penetration, sex toy and penis, how can you try it?

The double penetration is not much talked about. Or if: in the world of porn. The scene ? A man or a woman is penetrated by two penises, in the vagina or in the anus. We speak of “DP” for intimates, and more precisely of DPV (if it is a question of the vagina), or DPA (if it is a question of the anus). What great acronyms to drop during a family dinner like, we almost have the impression of taking stock of the energy balance of our home (DPE). Also, we will remember that most frequently, in real life and far from porn, double penetration is done in two different orifices : a penis in the vagina, a penis in the anus, which can be more accessible than two gears in the same hole.

Always being that we do not always have the opportunity, or the desire, to invite an additional penis into our sexual relations. This is why the sex toy, in the shape of a phallus, can be very useful for practicing double penetration. How to submit the idea to his partner?

Double penetration can make everyone agree,

You can start by evoking your fantasy, or take out a sex toy to play for two, until the day when, magic, the sex toy and the penis find themselves in a tunnel each, or in the same tunnel. Note that we often hear that men feel in “competition” with sex toys, as if these little beasts replaced them. We can hear it: if, during a report, the sex toy takes up all the space, it is not funny to wonder what we are doing there, until comparing our talents to those of a piece of silicon. In double penetration, what is rather pleasant and everyone can agree is that the penis and the sex toy form a very nice team, for the sole purpose of creating pleasure, since the underlying purpose is none other than this: the sex toy alone is fine, I know, what I want is your penis! A way of presenting things, therefore. We will also think about investing his partner: the sex toy, he can handle it with us.

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How do we do it, in practice?

Now, it remains to be seen how we go about it, in practice. Let’s see. If we put everything on the vagina, with penis and sex toy inside, why not: the vagina is flexible and adapts, a bit like tights. However, it is not infinite. That’s why you have to make sure you’re excited, to lubricate sufficiently and therefore to use a water-based lubricant to ensure a minimum of humidity. The important thing is to avoid pain, friction galore, and possible microlesions. We cannot ignore it! So if it stings, scratches, hurts (and the penis too, which is not solo), we stop. Obviously, the important thing will be to go slowly. We bring in the penis then we test the waters with the sex toy: can we sneak in or not? Do we give the go or not? To know that using fingers instead of the sex toy is a first step. We will also start with the use of a fine sex toy. No need to have eyes bigger than your stomach. There are some very cute ones, with a small diameter, which will be perfect for approaching this practice.
Also, you can practice DP by requesting two orifices: a sex toy in the vagina or anus, a penis where it is free. A way to approach the practice, to become familiar with the games, the duplication, and to grasp whether, yes or not, this terrain pleases us and makes us want to go further. Afterwards, everything will be a question of communication, precautions, hygiene, and slowness as desired.

Caroline Michel is a journalist in psycho sexo and author in particular of 89 months, Sex Thousand People (collection of illustrated micro-news), The sexual charge (First), The love of the great (Robert Laffont).

Psycho and sex journalist

Caroline Michel is a journalist in psycho sexo and author. Passionate, she enjoys dissecting everyday life and looking for the right words (which she hopes to find often). She is the author of…