Dream woman: 7 things that make you one

Be honest: Wouldn't we all like to be a dream woman? Then we should also try to be one – because not only the men benefit from it …

What is a dream woman?

Big breasts, firm buttocks and a beautiful smile – qualities that surely come to mind for some of us when it comes to what men imagine as a dream woman. But would we also describe our dream man as a well-built guy with a six-pack, broad shoulders and well-groomed hands? Just!

For men are looking for a partner Eye-catcher and dream woman just as different a pair of shoes as for us.

  • Eye-catcher: attractive, person we would like to conquer and who is absolutely suitable for dating, falling in love and sex
  • Dream woman / man: The person we would ideally like to have by our side for the rest of our lives (and next to us in bed).

Clear: Every eye-catcher can also be a dream woman. But the characteristics that make her an eye-catcher differ from those that make her a dream woman. Because What men love about a woman in the long term is usually not apparent at first glance.

7 characteristics of a dream woman for life

1. She speaks openly what moves her.

Surprise, surprise: men can read minds as badly as women. And who likes to have a relationship with a partner who always shows him what he's bad at …? Dream women tell their boyfriend what is going on, and save him a headache, frustration and annoyance. And yourself, too, by the way …

2. She has her own head.

To brag about your buddies, a fancy tag might be nice. But when it comes to shaping a life together, women can hardly do men independent, independent and determined to be enough. Of course, as a friend, we should also compromise and not expect to always implement our 100% will. But in a dream partnership, the partners inspire each other. You can't do that without your own ideas, goals, friends, hobbies – brains.

3. It is not always predictable.

Yes, dream women are sometimes in a bad mood or are so passionately enthusiastic about an idea out of the blue that the sparks fly around them. Incredible, but true: that makes them – even for a man – human, lovable and adorable. Nobody wants to spend his life with a machine, not even if it were sexy, blonde and blue-eyed.

4. She is genuinely interested in his view of things.

A dream woman takes her partner seriously and sees his input (opinion, perspective, wishes, interests) as enrichment and inspiration. Nice side effect for him: he gets to feel it! First prize for his ego and self-confidence. Sometimes psychology is that simple – honestly love and respect a person and you become irresistible for him …

5. She enjoys her life.

What is more important when choosing a partner: the look or the feeling we have in the presence of each other? Exactly, the feeling, both for men and women. But it doesn't make anyone feel good if their partner is constantly disciplined and stoic and refuses to enjoy it. On the other hand, people who like to live and enjoy infect their surroundings and make others happier with their way. No wonder, that Ability to enjoy a dream woman criterion is …

6. She has fun with sex.

And in combination with point 1 – jackpot! In bed, it's not about beauty, special abilities or qualities. He also doesn't care whether our zodiac signs harmonize sexually. What most people find incredibly sexy and irresistible is when a woman Lust and has sexual intercourse and gets their money's worth. Not for him, but for himself. Win-win situation, it looks like …

(If you have orgasm problems: Why this is no reason to despair, you can find out in our article.)

7. You trusted him.

Yes, healthy jealousy is part of a healthy relationship and is even a sign of love. But if you are healthy jealous, you can trust your partner – and that's what men want from a dream woman. Because it gives them security and the relationship relaxes. And at least subliminally because trust in relationships always has a certain degree Self-confidence presupposes – and to have that, after all, a (dream) woman has every reason …

(By the way: You can find out more about how you can fight the relationship killer pathological jealousy in our related article).

Why doesn't the "real dream woman" correspond to our cliché?

One could ask three billion men about it, all of the interviewees would probably agree: There is no such thing as the perfect woman. And even if they were: Nobody would want to be with a woman like thatthat triggers inferiority complexes in it with its perfection and flawlessness.

Admitted: As a single Men may describe their dream women with features such as slim, curvy, humorous, intelligent or lead stars and fashion queens like Angelina Jolie and Kim Kardashian. But if you focus on real life success stories, on Men who have found their dream woman and true love in their partner, then you get answers like

  • it's never boring with her
  • I can laugh with her
  • it gives me a feeling of security.

So it is a mistake if we think that we have to have certain dimensions or hairstyles in order to be perceived by men as a dream woman. Being self-confident and authentic are the real dream woman qualities. And if we take this as our life and personal development goals, not only men will benefit from it.

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