The sexual technique of edging makes it possible to achieve nirvana from nirvana. Find out how, with delayed orgasms, you can reach another level of pleasure.
Do you want to experience even more incredible orgasms with your partner? Then you have come to the right place. And, little spoiler, this sexual technique, edging, is also perfect for solo sex (yes, we are talking about masturbation). What is edging? It is a practice that aims to learn to control an orgasm. And it is really surprising that this sexual technique is not used more generally by everyone, because the effect is incredibly good. There is hardly an orgasm as great as the one that can be achieved through arousal.
To all those who thought they could avoid reaching an orgasm too quickly by withdrawing briefly during a sexual intercourse with penetration or by quickly thinking about a not very sexy gesture to not come, know that there is much better than this to arrive just on the verge of orgasm without reaching it immediately.
How does the edging technique work?
Controlling orgasm is useful when, in a relationship, one of you needs more time than the other. The edging technique is often used in these cases. In other words, when you think you can’t take it anymore and you’re about to orgasm, you hold back for the other person, so they have more time. However, you can also use this technique to increase the pleasure even more.
Because, while it does take some control and discipline – after all, you have to brake yourself when it’s the best time – the result is worth taking a little time to polish this technique. Why ? For the following reason: if you control your arousal repeatedly, it will build up and increase. When you finally reach orgasm, you will feel a much stronger sensation than usual.
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5 tips to get the most out of edging in your relationship
# Tip 1
A night of love can be very long, and that’s good! If you feel like it and everyone agrees, sex can last only a few minutes but taking your time is so good sometimes … So let your excitement build slowly and take the time to please each other. . Ultimately, foreplay is all about getting your body going in whatever way it takes so that you can’t think of anything other than sex. (It also helps clear your head after a stressful day).
# Tip 2
Also delay the time of penetration. Take it easy. This will make you both “hotter” and you will hardly be able to wait any longer.
# Tip 3
Practice with your partner to recognize the “point of no return” – that is, the moment when one of you can no longer stay in control and hold back the orgasm. Then make a stop just before, together. Stop for a moment, don’t move, pay attention to your breathing and your body. This moment can be great. It has less to do with discipline and counting to ten, but in these times you can feel mutual excitement at your fingertips. Enjoy it!
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# Tip 4
Practice these stops until you can delay your orgasm for so long that the tension becomes almost unbearable. Because it is precisely this method that guarantees you a particularly intense orgasm at the end.
# Tip 5
It is an adventure that takes place for two. If one of you is holding back, but the other isn’t as disciplined, that’s selfish. If you just reach for orgasm and leave the other behind, the situation is unfair. If one of the two cannot really hold on any longer, it must be indicated quickly so that the other can also let go and let his pleasure explode. Otherwise, the person who leaves “empty-handed” may be very frustrated.
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Edging and and masturbation
The edging method is also perfect for partnerless sex, for both men and women. Because solo orgasm can also be improved and increased tenfold. Stimulation with sex toys or hands should only go up to a certain point and then stop briefly. Of course, you can also control yourself during masturbation and increase tension and arousal until you reach orgasm. As in a couple, this technique is very effective in the context of masturbation.
It really is something to try. You can create pauses by switching from manual stimulation to stimulation with an intimate toy or by changing the accessory, the level of stimulation or even the vibration.
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