her husband decides to give her a performance evaluation so that she “improves”

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This case has shocked all Internet users. A man didn’t understand his wife’s anger after he gave her a performance review.

In their romantic relationship or in their role as dad, it happens that men make many very inappropriate remarks consciously or unconsciously…Of course they are not all like that but many women do not hesitate to tell their misadventures on their social networks or on various discussion forums. And each time Internet users are deeply shocked by these stories!

This time it was not the woman who told what happened but her husband directly. The latter did not understand at all what he had done wrong: after all he had just provided his wife an evaluation of his performance as a stay-at-home mom. Nothing frightening according to him, and yet it is an attitude which was very quickly qualified as “sexist and misogynistic” in the comments, for good reason. Here’s why this gentleman found it necessary to rate his wife as if he were his superior…

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Her husband couldn’t stand some of his wife’s decisions

It all started with a feeling of injustice felt by the father of the family. His wife and stay-at-home mom takes care of her 13-year-old daughter from a previous relationship, their 6-year-old daughter, and they also have custody of their 15-year-old niece. But he noticed on several occasions that his wife did not punish all the children in the same way… The two teenagers are often punished more harshly than their 6-year-old daughter for the same stupidity. On Reddit the man explains: “Our daughter is definitely my wife’s favorite and I love her dearly too but she is becoming a spoiled brat.” He goes on to explain that this difference in treatment has caused many arguments in the couple. The spouse therefore explains how the idea of ​​a performance evaluation came to him: “We had countless tiring arguments. Either she didn’t see her faults, or we agreed to do this and that, but it never got done. I decided to write down the areas where she needed to improve. I touched on the fact that she needs to listen better, stop being biased. May she be fair in all her decisions, and stop making rash decisions without considering the three children. I recommended that he give each child equal time to talk one-on-one or just be together.” The father still takes the time to mention his strengths and qualities in this assessment!

Unsurprisingly, his wife received the letter very badly but he does not understand why: “It quickly backfired on me. She was silent the first hour after I handed it to her. Then she completely exploded, she said if we did this kind of bullshit she would get a private bank account and take half my salary every week. She further said the criticism was abusive and a manipulative sexist gesture.” In the comments, netizens agree with his wife, they reminded her that he was neither her employer nor her boss and that he didn’t have to do that stuff…

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Zoé is on a work-study program, she joined the aufeminin team in September 2022, she writes for the parenting section. Committed and curious, Zoé likes to write to advance…

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