The in-laws are sometimes complicated to manage, this is the case of this woman who testified anonymously. Her husband’s mother pressures her to have children…
“So when are the kids?”… as women we have all heard this phrase before. And if for some it’s a matter of choice, for others, not having children is a real pain. You never know what is hidden behind each person, you never know what this woman in a relationship for 5 years may suffer from who has always wanted children but who still does not have any. This is one of the reasons why this kind of question should no longer exist. In addition to the mental load, women do not need to experience unmanageable social pressure.
A 27-year-old young woman in a relationship for more than 2 years, lives hell with his mother-in-law. She posted a message on Reddit where she recounts the time too many, the one where her husband’s mother attacked her in the middle of a family meal because she was not yet pregnant. Exceeded by this attitude, the young woman decided to answer him in front of all her in-laws and she did not mince her words.
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An unbearable situation for the young woman who hides a heavy secret
During the family meal, her husband’s mother keeps asking her son questions about the children. The young woman says: “She kept pestering him and asking him when she was going to have grandchildren. It’s something she’s been talking about a lot lately and it gets on my nerves. My partner asked her to stop several times but she kept talking about it. I sat in silence for a while, but I think the wine got the better of me, so I cracked up a bit.” She continues: “I turned to her and started asking her what she wanted to know about our private life: “What kind of protection do we use? What positions did we try? What toys do we use?” I started listing them all. Let’s just say I used very inappropriate language for a family meal, I even added a “Do you have any tips for me? Or maybe it would be best if you come and watch to make sure we’re doing it right?”. So she started yelling at me and lashing out at my partner for “letting” me talk to her like that. We got up shortly after and left.” The woman got angry (rightly so) because she is infertile and will not be able to have children, it is a heavy secret that makes her suffer.
Since then, the young woman has made an update on her post on Reddit. She explained that she did not wish to tell her mother-in-law that she was sterile. Unfortunately, she thinks the latter found out. She even told her son that she knew the problem for the children was her and that she regretted that he chose her. Following this, they broke off all contact with her husband’s family and they plan to adopt a child… while staying away from the mother-in-law.