Romantic toxins, films and love realities, shedding light on 7 ideas that are harmful to our relationships.
Kiran Athar, web journalist, explains to us that his adolescence was immersed in romantic comedies, but that his mother kept telling him, “Real life isn’t like that!” It was only in her thirties that she came to the conclusion that: “after failed relationships, sometimes because of my high expectations (thanks, Disney), a truth struck me: love and relationships are distorted on screen. Certainly entertaining, touching and hopeful, Don’t they cause more long-term damage than we think?”
Here are 7 toxic ideas that movies propagate, harming romantic relationships
Love at first sight overlooks the importance of building relationships
The most blatant lie: two strangers who instantly fall in love. Nice idea, but in reality, it’s lust, not love. True love takes time, requiring many shared experiences.
Overemphasis on grand gestures and materialism
Expecting constant proof of love through gifts or lavish dates does not create fulfilling relationships.
Jealousy and Possession as Signs of Love
Movies normalize excessive jealousy, presenting it as a manifestation of love, creating toxic relationships. Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
The trivialization of toxic masculinity and gender stereotypes
Films like “Fifty Shades of Grey” glorify toxic masculinity, erecting outdated stereotypes. It is time to move beyond these archaic ideas.
The tropism of transformation reinforcing superficial values
Superficial transformations to please do not build lasting relationships. Be yourself, because someone will appreciate you just the way you are.
The idea that love conquers all, even abuse
Some romantic films show that love overcomes everything, including abuse. This is a dangerous idea that does not reflect the reality of healthy relationships.
Instant conflict resolution
Arguments require communication and time for a healthy resolution. Don’t copy movies, as expecting a quick resolution can lead to resentment.
In conclusion, enjoy movies, but don’t base your relationships on these clichés. The reality is more complex and nuanced, and adhering to these toxic ideas can cause significant damage.
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