What if there was a magic phrase to make your couple go well? Questioned on the subject by psychologists, 40,000 couples agreed on an answer.
After the passion of the beginnings, inevitably settles the daily grind and its share of risks which wear out the couple. And if some end up separating, others persist, not without some effort, but also some tips and secret ingredients. While it goes without saying that every couple is different, psychologists have questioned more than 40,000 couples and now claim thata sentence would strengthen the bonds between the partnersreports West France. Hang on tight, the answer might surprise you as it competes in simplicity.
Forget the poems of Victor Hugo, Charles Baudelaire or Paul Verlaine, if they can bring romance to your relationship, the truth is that on a daily basis, they will not bring any serenity to your couple. No, the magic phrase which will allow, day after day, to strengthen the bonds with your other half a stupid and banal “thank you”. Looks like nothing, this “thank you” tells your spouse that you recognize their efforts, that you have noticed their hard work and that you appreciate them. A short sentence, made up of a single word of course, but which ultimately says a lot.
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Because the trap into which anyone can easily fall is to focus on the negatives. “You haven’t done the dishes”, “You forgot to take out the trash”… Gold say thank youeven (and above all) for everyday actions, would have a significant impact on the relationship. However, it should be noted that it is good totell the other why you are saying thank you : “Thank you for picking up the mail at the mailbox”, “Thank you for making the meal”. By setting up regular thanks, you could greatly change things within your couple and create a virtuous circle. Your better half might even start doing the same thing. However, if not, keep in mind that doing this is your personal choice and in no way theirs. But above all, that starting by modifying one’s perception of the world is much more powerful than one would like to believe…