We knew the point G, it would seem that another letter of the alphabet is at the service of our pleasure. The "deep spot" or point A would promise even more powerful orgasms. Where is the deep spot located, how to stimulate it and why? Here are some ways to explore new horizons.
If the G-spot stole the show for a long time, the point A, also known as the "deep spot", is one of the many erogenous zones in the body of cisgender women. More difficult to reach because deeper, it would lead to very powerful orgasms. We explain where it is and how to stimulate it, alone, in pairs or more and with a sextoy.
What is the deep spot?
The "deep spot" means "deep point". It was Dr. Chee Ann who allegedly revealed her existence in 1997 and American sex therapist Barbara Keesling who reportedly spread the information in her book The super female orgasm translated into French in 1998 and published by Albin Michel editions.
Unlike the G spot which is located at the entrance to the vagina, the deep spot is located at the bottom of the vagina, near the cervix, so reaching it is a bit trickier. And to complicate matters, the deep spot is made up of two points: the “front deep spot” (front deep spot) or point A, located at the front and the “back deep spot” (rear deep spot), located in back. Point A, for “anterior fornix erogenous zone”, was first mentioned in the work on vaginal dryness by Dr. Chua Chee Ann at the end of the 1980s. He thus found that stimulation of this zone caused a enhanced vaginal lubrication and more chances of reaching orgasm.
The anterior zone of the fornix or "front deep spot" is located at the end of the clitoris (at the level of the internal part). It would thus provide a crazy pleasure when you know how to access it. This point can also be reached during anal sex, due to its position closer to the rectum. Hence the possibility of having an orgasm during sodomy, partly thanks to the clitoris too.
How to stimulate the deep spot or point A?
Before stimulating it, it must already be found. To do this, we embark on a little exploration of his body. We wash our hands and insert one or two fingers inside her vagina, until you feel a hard point at the back: the cervix. Once found, there are several ways to stimulate this point.
- Stimulate your deep spot with your fingers
You can do it with your fingers, especially if they are long, but it's very difficult to do it alone since you would have to be leaning forward with your back bent. We feel the area gently to find the place that makes us feel good, or on the contrary that bothers us, because not everyone necessarily feels a pleasant sensation to their touch.
- Stimulate his point A with his / her partner
With two or more, it is necessary to privilege the positions which allow a deep penetration, since the deep spot is at the bottom of the vagina. For reach the deep spot, one can privilege the position of the Amazon, the inverted Amazon, the anvil, the andromache as well as the doggy style.
- Stimulate your deep spot with sextoys
We could see it: since the deep spot is located at the bottom of the vagina, it is not always easy to reach it with your fingers. Sex toys can become the allies of choice for discovering and stimulating this area. The ideal? Vibrating fingers and slightly curved vibrators!
Our selection of sex toys for the deep spot
Deep spot, point A, point G … Do we need to find all these points?
If going in search of your deep spot can spice up lovemaking, explore your body or even test new things, this should not become a sexual "goal" to be achieved at all costs. Do we really need to know (and find) all these points to get our bearings? No, and it should also be remembered that many cisgender women admit to not being sensitive to vaginal penetration, and deep penetration. Each person has their desires and preferences.
By looking for its deep spot, or even its G-spot, we will focus on the search for a sensation rather than on the pleasure in its entirety. At the risk of forgetting the many other erogenous zones of the body: the clitoris, breasts, buttocks, thighs, neck, etc. Finally, embarking on the exploration of this point could generate great pressure and an obsession with performance, the two enemies of great sexuality. So, find your deep spot, yes if you want to, but you also have the right to not be interested in it at all!