Curious about discovering her sexuality after her divorce, a young woman named Lucy Roeber went to her first sexual orgy at age 49. And the least we can say is that what she discovered was particularly intriguing.
A testimony… unique in its kind. In the columns of New York PostLucy Roeber, 49, spoke about her first sex orgy. An experience she embarked on without really knowing what to expect, just after her divorce. “As a divorced mother of three teenagers in my late 40s, I was open and curious about myself, beyond the parameters associated with 16 years of heterosexual, monogamous marriage.”she begins.
As part of her work as editor-in-chief ofErotic Review, a British magazine on desire and sexuality, we tested a sexual orgy. This idea, which turns out to be in line with her current desires, tempts her. “People have been having orgies for millennia, so maybe I’d like it. Maybe anonymous nights like this could suit me and allow me to balance single parenting and pleasure.”she says to herself.
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“The excitement was palpable”
“When the taxi pulled up to the imposing mansion where the orgy was taking place, near Wokingham, Berkshire, I realized I was nervous about what might happen, about to know if I would hate this place or if I would never want to leave it again”assures the forty-year-old, who went to this “sex party” with one of her friends. “Once inside, we waited in a long line at the bar, among couples of men and women of all ages. I’m guessing most people are in their thirties, but all eyes are hidden behind masks Our party companions seemed at ease, subtly scanning the room for knowledge or potential interest.she declares, before adding: “The excitement was palpable”.
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“The master of ceremonies then grabbed the microphone and began to bring up the sauce“remembers the mother. “Everyone was already talking enthusiastically”. Another woman there asks her if she has ever been to this type of evening. “It’s my first time”she replied. “She then offered to explain, admitting that it was a very heterosexual party and that the majority of people were couples,” says Lucy Roeber.
“I want to be first in line for the dominatrix”
“I asked her when the party started and she explained to me that the ‘game rooms’ opened around 10 p.m. Since I wasn’t wearing a watch and had been told to leave my phone at the entrance or risk being blacklisted, we weren’t sure when to proceed. It was then that a noise resounded inside, like a rush of air.she remembers. “That’s it, it must be open”his interlocutor then told him, before continuing: “Sorry. I have to go. I want to be the first in the queue for the dominatrix“.
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The journalist and her friend then followed this woman upstairs. “When I arrived, I saw a couple talking on a red two-seater sofa in the hallway. It was only when I approached that I saw her hand move under her dress. We started with the rightmost room: there was a bowl on a table outside overflowing with condoms“says the young divorcee.
“Two men and a woman had a threesome”
“The first room seemed enormous, with dim lighting and, in the center, three large double beds with fitted red sheets. On each of them, there were maybe 10 naked people, mainly couples. People were undressing or just standing around watching.”she explains. “We moved into the next room, where two men and a woman were having a threesome. I also saw a man kneeling in front of his partner, but I looked away“. The editor then describes three other rooms, also filled with large beds and naked people. Among them, the dominatrixes’ room, where “a naked woman was tied to a table in front of me, the latex ‘dom’ gently caressing her body with a whip”she specifies.
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“As the night progressed, the beds became so cluttered with flesh that we no longer saw the red sheets, but only bits of bodies which moved, rose, embraced and rubbed, all punctuated by the sound of everyone’s moans and grunts”says Lucy Roeber.
“It was strangely touching”
It was around 1 a.m., shortly before the end of the evening, that she and her friend decided to leave. “My girlfriend was happy to have at least snogged the DJ. As for me, I was also delighted with my evening: I had kept my clothes on all night and, since men are not allowed to proposition women, women during orgies like this, I didn’t have to have any awkward conversations”, she declares proudly.
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Indeed, the journalist said she was surprised to have noticed that her body had not given up, even though she was in the middle of a crowd of people making love. “JI didn’t find it exciting or grotesque, but strangely touching. : a group of enthusiasts happy to find others who share their inclinations”, she admits. Morality, the mother does not regret this extraordinary experience, but will not try it again soon. “I think I just prefer vanilla sex.”. And ultimately, there’s nothing wrong with that!
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