If you don't say these two words, you as parents have more sex

Hardly any time for each other, too little sleep and therefore always tired, a family bed and children suddenly bursting in – there are many reasons that make it difficult for parents to have sex regularly again. And some even have had no sex since the birth of a child! The reasons for this can be varied.

The relationship expert, doctor and therapist Stefan Woinoff is familiar with this problem. He knows what can really cause him to slide down on the partner's attractiveness scale – often two harmless words are the cause. "This is the number one relationship trap," warns the Munich. In the video above you can see which words you absolutely have to avoid!

Because then you no longer see yourself as an individual and loving couple, but only as parents. And that can even be so unattractive that, according to the expert, it is the reason why many relationships with children fail.

Another thing about being a parent reveals Stefan Woinoff: When there are children, everything revolves around them.

Parents become alienated because they pay too much attention to the children.

The Huffington Post continues to quote: "I think that young parents in particular are exaggerating with the brimborium about the child. In the past, children were just running along. Now they are doing a lot of effort around them."

We mean, just like with sex in general:

"Either a special event is made of it, or there is no sex at all," says the couple therapist.

And we don't have to tell anyone here that the event as a parent can only be planned under difficult circumstances. But the tip from the video is worth gold – see for yourself!