Vast question posed to us by Céline, 27, who would like to know if there is a good way to perform fellatio. Our expert and journalist Caroline Michel answers him.
It’s a fact: 91% of women in France have already performed oral sex on their partner, and contrary to popular belief, this has not always been the case: as the Ifop study tells us this statistic,The number of women who have already licked the sex of their partner has increased by 36% in fifty years “. That being said, it is not because fellatio invites itself into our sexual relations with all the naturalness of the world that we never wonder about the “right way to do it”, like Céline . I could answer Céline, straight away, thatthere are as many ways to perform fellatio as there are penises, since each penis has its little preferences (finally the individual behind). But I am well aware that this is not enough, so I will present here the ingredients of a nice fellatio, in agreement with the genital area (we respect it), the partner (unique in its kind) and oneself (because if you don’t have fun, you stop).
First of all, I would like to say that fellatio is like penetration, cunnilingus, the sex toy that you solicit, the crude words that you utter and so on: it’s more fun when it’s inconsistent. I mean by that that vary the caresses and the pressure, it’s nice. A blowjob, contrary to what we imagine, and contrary to what porn movies tell us at length of mega-fake moans, doesn’t just consist of putting the rod in her mouth to hit bottom, come back to catch your breath, and swallow it all again. In addition to choking, we are on the brink of dying of boredom.
A good blowjob is a diverse blowjob
Fellatio is a game of language, lips, mouth. We lick here, we grab there, we kiss here, we use our hands to handle the lollipop, and, also, we think of the very sensitive testicles, which are not against being kneaded; to discuss with the partner. The important thing will be to avoid biting, you may read everywhere, but let’s stop a bit with this matter of teeth, because we don’t need to open our mouths until we’re freaking out either. jaw to prevent our molar from meeting the glans. In reality, of course, we are quite good at not scratching or biting the beast.
So I come to the partner who remains better placed than me to guide and share his desires. We can therefore ask him the question, while listening to his own limits, of course, because if fellatio can transform the report into a sex party, but it is not a panty party either. So we say yes to the dialogue, we grab the hands of the partner so that they come to support us and show us the way, and we then discover “the right way”, the one that we build as a duo, and over the reports. , because no blowjob is like the previous one.
The important thing (again) will be, as I said in the introduction, to love what you do, to having fun, sharing, having fun. We feel a certain excitement to meet face to face the penis of our partner? To observe the latter moaning and enjoying? We are on the right path. The right way, so that’s it, it’s the one that puts everyone in agreement on the terrain of pleasure.
Caroline Michel is a journalist in psycho sexo and author. Passionate, she enjoys dissecting everyday life and looking for the right words (which she hopes to find often). She is the author of…