Kivin Method: Orgasm in Minutes?

Kivin method
The sex practice with that special kick

Kivin method: couples in bed

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We need to talk about Kivin! Because the Kivin method promises an orgasm guarantee in a few minutes. You can find out what it is and how it works here.

What's behind it

For some time now, the Kivin method has been making the (virtual) round as an orgasm guarantee. How come? Presumably, the technology owes its newfound fame to a communicative Reddit user who reported that his wife usually does not climax through oral sex, but now had her Big O within a few minutes. What is it now? In a nutshell: The Kivin method is lateral cunnilingus. So pampering the vulva with your mouth, not from the front, but from the side. The giving part licks from top to bottom, but from the recipient's point of view it is from left to right.

Lateral cunnilingus as an orgasm boost

Your curiosity is aroused and you wonder what should be better about it now? The method promises …

  • … better access to the entire vulva (labia, mons pubis and clitoris)
  • … to be able to cover a larger area of ​​the clitoris through lateral stimulation
  • … greater pleasure through the inclusion of other erogenous zones in the intimate area
  • … faster orgasms through the different stimulation points

This is how the Kivin Method works

We explain exactly how this should work step by step:

  1. The woman lies on her back with one leg or both bent and raised in the air.
  2. Your partner lies down on their stomach (or kneels) next to you, creating a 90-degree angle, with their face level with the vulva.
  3. The recipient can put her leg on the partner.
  4. Now this starts slowly, e.g. B. by pampering the entire area with the mouth.
  5. In order to be able to reach the clitoris better, place your thumb and index finger to the right and left of it.
  6. Everyone likes something different, so they like to try out: sometimes just the clitoris, sometimes licking a larger area or sometimes circling, sometimes playing up and down with the tongue …
  7. The other hand can also be included: some like the stimulation of the perineum, that is the spot between anus and vulva, or penetration with the fingers while they are licked.

As always in love life, it is important to try out what you like. The legs can also both remain put down and the partner bends over the thighs accordingly. And if you don't like touching the dam: it doesn't matter either!

Is that really an orgasm guarantee?

The Kivin Method cannot guarantee high points or a faster way to get there. But it's worth a try, isn't it? Maybe the change of direction or the stimulation of the perineum will bring you new heights. And if not, you can always switch to sex position 69 or 68 position …

5 tips for good oral sex

Just go ahead and hope for the best? Does not have to be! To make cunnilingus a pleasure, take the following tips to heart:

1. Take your time

Even if an orgasm sounds tempting after three minutes, take time for and with each other – the rest will come by itself sooner or later.

2. Be attentive

It is not always easy to interpret the signs, but those who already know their partner a little better certainly know what to look out for in order to then adjust their tongue acrobatics if necessary.

3. Variety

Slow, fast, circling, more or less pressure – the variety is sure to get you going!

4. Include the body

Not only the large area around the clitoris, but also breasts and thighs look forward to attention …

5.Switching off …

and enjoy.

Do you want to exchange ideas with others about this or other erotic topics? Then take a look at the BRIGITTE Community!