Composed mainly of water, the intimate lubricating gel, a product available in pharmacies and supermarkets, helps hydrate and moisturize the mucous membranes during vaginal or anal sex. This liquid, to be applied directly to the private parts or a condom, will increase the pleasure during a sexual relationship, reducing the risk of friction, irritation, pain or even burns during penetration. and back and forth.
What is the role of the lubricant?
Lubricant, is a gel, which helps "lubricate" the private parts during sex. Applying an intimate lubricant to the genitals is intended to "facilitate" sexual penetration, whether it is vaginal penetration or anal penetration. Moistening the mucous membranes during intercourse can thus avoid the risk of irritating or painful friction.
In which cases to use an intimate lubricating gel? While many couples regularly use lubricant (also known as "pleasure gel") during sex to increase the comfort and intensity of penetration, lubrication can be very helpful with vaginal dryness.
In fact, foreplay can increase excitement and moisten the mucous membranes, but this is not always enough.
The causes of vaginal dryness are diverse: they can be due to hormonal imbalance, repeated urinary tract infections, pregnancy, menopause, or even taking certain medications.
Also, stress, fatigue or a drop in libido can be factors in dehydration of the mucous membranes of the vagina.
Using lubricant is therefore strongly recommended for:
- Facilitate penetration during vaginal sex
- Facilitate the introduction of the penis, or a sextoy during sodomy
- Reduce friction when moving back and forth
- Avoid irritation in the private parts
- Avoid pain when the mucous membranes are not moist enough after foreplay
- Avoid the risk of tearing during difficult penetration
Note that in case of irritation, burning sensations, or persistent pain, it is important to consult a doctor.
When to use lubricant?
It is recommended to apply lubricant as soon as you feel the need to moisten the mucous membranes more (if you feel that penetration is a little more difficult, or during a first sodomy for example), and not wait for more intense pain or irritation to use it.
Applying lubricating gel is very simple: just place one or two drops with your fingertips on the penis and at the entrance to the vagina or anus. Do not hesitate to add more if necessary, before or during sex.
The application of the lubricating gel can absolutely be seen as a naughty game between the two partners: caresses, stimulation by applying it yourself or on the other, will raise the temperature under the duvet!
If the condoms are already coated with lubricant, you may need to add more to maximize comfort during penetration. Do not hesitate in this case to apply a small amount of gel directly on the condom unrolled on the erect penis, or at the entrance to the partner's vagina or anus.
Good advice: remember to store your lubricating gel in the nightstand, or near the bed, to make sure you always have some on hand just in case, and not to be cut off in your tracks …
How to choose an intimate lubricant?
Primarily formulated with water or silicone, there are many types of lubricating gels on the market. Flavor, fragrance, natural formulation, organic version, special texture … The offer is wide, and everyone can find what they are looking for!
However, gynecologists recommend opting for paraben-free formulas, to safely relieve feelings of discomfort. Used as preservatives in this type of product, parabens are considered to be endocrine disruptors. It is strongly recommended to avoid applying it locally, on the mucous membranes of the private parts.
Choosing it with the mention "hypoallergenic" is also a guarantee of quality, especially when you suffer from sensitivities on the skin or mucous membranes.
Also, be careful when using lubricant with a condom that it is of good composition: either water-based or silicone, to avoid altering the effectiveness of this method of contraception during intercourse. Therefore, do not use a homemade lubricant recipe when using a condom, as the ingredients used could deteriorate the latex.
Finally, for long-lasting and optimal pleasure, there are silicone lubricants: very pleasant to use, they will fluidify penetration, and accompany you to orgasm …
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