Mothers unpack
We were told these lies about having children before we became parents
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Parenthood is often romanticized and the less beautiful things left out. Mothers warn against untruths that they were told before having children.
The exaggeratedly positive depiction of being a mother, father or parent is partially declining and deviating from reality. More people are now talking about life with children in a balanced way. They don’t just gloss over how it is, but openly tell of the difficult moments with the little ones – or the big ones. On Reddit.com, moms have been spearheading lies about motherhood that they want to warn other women about.
Between tiredness, stress and love
The love of parents is very special. Something that usually lasts a lifetime. To experience the many milestones, from the first steps to school enrollment and then finally the moment when they suddenly really stand on their own two feet. Of course it’s nice to enjoy it. But along the long path that people in a family walk together, there are also hard times. The first year of baby alone is a real challenge: Everything is new, nobody gets enough sleep, nerves are often on edge. And over the years, the list of beautiful and strenuous situations keeps getting longer and longer. Here are some of the top rated honest statements from moms:
Mothers want to warn future parents about these lies
Do what you wish
“When is it for you?” or “If you don’t have children soon, it will be too late.” – Sayings that some women know from their environment. For example, friends with children, family members or partners can be a driving force when it comes to having children. Ultimately, it should be about whether you can imagine and are ready to have or adopt a child. The responsibility, the difficult moments, the financial burden – these are just a few factors that also take shape with the desire to have children. The most important thing is your own gut feeling. If you feel like others are making you make that decision, then maybe parenthood isn’t for you (yet). This may happen in the future, but it does not have to be this way.
Source used: Reddit.com