Multiple orgasms: That’s what matters

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Multiple orgasms? Sounds almost too good to be true! What’s up with the multiple climax and how you experience one, we clarify here.

Nice things get you hard enough! No wonder the term multiple orgasms is a trigger word for many. But what is behind it? Are multiple orgasms really something so great and desirable? And if so, how can you enjoy it?  We’ll tell you.

Multiple orgasms: what is it?

Multiple orgasms are, as the name implies, several highlights in quick succession.  Whether in sex with a partner, during masturbation or any other activity that can lead to orgasm (some exercise exercises are supposed to do wonders for some women …). In general, only women can enjoy multiple orgasms (emphasis is on can!). Since men usually have ejaculation at a peak , they then need a short break to physically “gather” (on average, this break should be about 30 minutes). However, if ejaculation fails, which is possible in rare cases, men are theoretically also able to experience multiple orgasms.

Multiple Orgasms: How is this possible?

The key to having multiple orgasms is that we continue straight after the climax . Desire and excitement must be kept as constant as possible. Sounds difficult? It is, at least for some women!

The thing is that: No two orgasms are the same ! We all live and experience sex, pleasure and sexual highlights in a very individual way. Our bodies are different, we are in different situations, have unique experiences and emotions. All this and more leads us to B. have different needs, perceptions and sensations during intercourse . Sometimes women are divided into two orgasm types:

  • Peak type : The climax occurs relatively suddenly, lasts only a short time, but is felt to be very intense. Then the excitement drops off quickly, you feel relieved and freed and do not feel like any further action (but more so on cuddling!). For the peak type, it is difficult to impossible to have multiple orgasms .
  • Plateau Type : The climax is slowly building up and it’s hard to say exactly when it starts and how long it lasts. The excitement stays at a high level for longer, it seems to be a bit waving and then stronger again. In the plateau type, the conditions for a multiple orgasm are excellent .

The question is whether each woman can be assigned to exactly one of these types, or whether it depends on the particular sexual experience, in which category we fit with our respective orgasm. In any case, it seems that these two ways of experiencing orgasms are very crude, and obviously the chance of a multiple climax at a plateau orgasm is especially great .

Multiple orgasms: The best tips

In a study commissioned by the online portal ” OMGYes “, some 1,000 women were questioned about multiple orgasms a few years ago – an impressive 47 percent said they had experienced multiple orgasms before ! So unusual, the multiple climax does not even seem to be … 

The majority of those who had experience with multiple orgasms reported that after the first pleasure summit, they continued to do things differently; B. is changed to another position. The best tips from the interviewed experts on how you can act so that you experience several orgasms during sex are accordingly:

  • Changing tempo : If you do not want to stay at an orgasm, you can try to slow down after your first peak, much like you did towards the end of foreplay. Calmer, more tender movements keep you going, but also signal your body: It’s about to start again!
  • Change position : Different sex positions usually stimulate different erogenous zones with varying degrees of intensity and trigger sometimes quite different orgasms. For example, if you happen to have a partner with intergalactic stamina, you could switch from a very intimate position like Flowering Orchid to Elephant Posture and then Doggy Style . If you have only an average dream man in bed, he can first satisfy you orally and by hand before you come together for the final climax.
  • One erogenous zone after another : For most women, clitoris, G or A-spot and Co. are initially “exhausted” after an orgasm, which is why the same body (s) are always stimulating, absolutely counterproductive! It would be more strategically clever to focus on one spot (if possible) and thus to keep more erogenous zones quasi-open for the further course, ie to leave them as stimulatory as possible.

As you can see: Unless you satisfy yourself, in order to come to a climax several times, you must rely on the active and committed cooperation of your partner … 

Multiple orgasms: Is this really necessary?

Granted: Experiencing several orgasms in a row sounds mega irritable and desirable! To extend this unique moment of devotion in such a way – who would say no to that? On the other hand, the same is true as  squiring : why should we put ourselves under pressure if we are completely happy and content with our sex life and simple orgasms ? Of course, experiments and variety in bed (or where you like to do it) are basically good and can be worthwhile – but only as long as we enjoy it and feel like it !

After all, not every sexual experience is equally beautiful for us all. What pleases one, the other can be totally unpleasant . There are also different opinions about multiple orgasms. Some may culminate z. For example, they enjoy the most when they experience him almost at the same time as their sexual partner – so a multiple orgasm is not exactly a treat for them. Who in turn has general orgasm problems should not even worry about any multiplication – zero times x results in known zero …

In other words: nothing against curiosity and the joy of experimenting! The better we know our body and the richer our sexual experience, the better our chances for orgasm and pleasurable climaxes are in general better. But who is not in the mood for changes in position or tempo or who has an orgasm after the end is not missed anything. At least not if she feels good and wants to – not immediately, but eventually …