psychology
8 sentences confident women never say to their boyfriend
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Shy mouse? Well and good, not every woman is loud and dominant. But we should ALL avoid these sentences in the relationship – because with them we are only belittling ourselves.
Women with low self-esteem in particular run the risk of being undermined in the relationship. There are then sentences with which they make themselves even smaller. Better not to say these things to your partner.
1. "We do it how you want it."
No, it should say. How WE want it! Because a relationship can only work if you are willing to compromise.
2. "Do you even love me?"
The question is actually unnecessary – otherwise he would hardly be with you. And: Self-confident women are satisfied with themselves and do not need constant confirmation from their partner.
3. "I'm doing everything wrong."
It can happen that you screw something up. But with such sentences you only crank the self-fulfilling prophecy – and further failures are imminent.
4. "I look terrible again!"
Oh no! That definitely sounds like "Fishing for compliments". And is anything but sexy on the partner.
5. "I couldn't live without you."
Sounds kind of romantic, but it also shows very clearly: I am heavily dependent on you and I can't manage my life on my own.
6. "Please never leave me!"
Here, too, the angels sing in the romantic ears. But at the same time it looks like begging. If so, it should be phrased differently: "Let's stay together forever!"
7. "I don't deserve you at all!"
Why not? Putting your partner on a pedestal like this is not good for any relationship.
8. "You'll have more fun tonight without me."
Sounds like: I'm the most boring person in the whole world. And that's definitely not true!