Psychology: Anyone who says these sentences is particularly uncomplicated

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Anyone who says these sentences is particularly uncomplicated

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Some people are complicated, some aren’t. These phrases are particularly typical of uncomplicated people.

Humans, like most other creatures, are anything but boring and easy to see through. Thus, if a person appears to us to be uncomplicated, that does not mean that they are simple, trivial, or predictable. Rather, it means that it exhibits a certain clarity, logic and understanding – it acts in a way that we can easily make sense of and adapt to.

For this reason, we usually find uncomplicated people pleasant. They get us well and often the way they live and face the world is healthy for them too. The following sentences are particularly typical for uncomplicated people.

Anyone who says these sentences is particularly uncomplicated

1. “What do you mean?”

Straightforward people don’t do great puzzles or spend hours interpreting what’s behind certain statements made by those around them. If in doubt, simply and directly ask. If you can’t clarify something by asking, let it be and don’t bother with it any further. They generally do not assume bad intentions in others and assume that anything that might need to be discussed will be discussed when the time is right.

2. “I have (now/later/tomorrow/not) time.”

Easygoing are typically spontaneous and able to take at least a moment to themselves on short notice. They find it easy to adjust their plans and live their lives freely, flexibly, and without doggedness when something important and unexpected happens.

On the other hand, easygoing people can usually say and decide clearly when they are available for a date and when they are not. They know how much of their time they want to schedule and how much they want to keep free in order to be comfortable and to really enjoy and experience what they promise.

3. “We’ll take care of that when the time comes.”

Straightforward people tend to be patient and stay calm until it’s time to act. They don’t anticipate or worry about problems that aren’t there yet—and that may go away before they become one. Straightforward people always prioritize what is important in the moment. In most cases, they are successful with this strategy and rarely get stressed.

4. “I don’t want to do that.”

Straightforward people don’t need excuses not to do something. They also don’t have to make pro/con lists to decide what they want and don’t want. Feelings are enough for them: If they sense that they don’t feel like doing something (that they don’t have to do), they stand by it and communicate it openly.

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