No, it is of course not our job to read every partner's wish in the relationship! But it would still be interesting to find out what men want from their dream woman – especially since some of them unfortunately have difficulty opening their mouths.
Luckily there is "Reddit"! There, numerous men have shared the one thing in a thread with which their partner could make them happier in the relationship. Well, let's put it this way: some of it would not only make men happier …
10 wishes of men in the relationship
1. Self love
- "My girlfriend should love herself more. She is full of insecurity and self-doubt. I love her and wish she could see herself the way I see her."
- "She should see herself the way I see her. I find her incredibly sexy. She doesn't think so."
- "Honestly, my partner should love herself more. She doesn't have to be perfect and I wish it would be easier for her to understand that."
2. Free space
- "You should give me more time for me … and not take it personally!"
- "I wish she was okay with the fact that I need time for myself and sometimes meet with my buddies (for example, watching football or in a bar …)"
3. Interest and sympathy
- "Something my wife does very well is asking me regularly, 'Is there anything you want to talk about?' I'm not a big speaker, but it helps me open myself up. "
- "At least please ask me how I am! It hurts if you don't do it."
- "She should just show interest in something that interests me every now and then."
4. Body contact
- "I would like more physical contact. Briefly stroke my arm, hug me from behind while I'm cooking or something …"
5. Give in
- "Would she just say" Oh yes, I'm sorry, you were right! " Once only …"
6. More initiative
- "She could just make a few plans. Trigger something."
- "I wish she would choose a restaurant."
- "She should play a more active role in sex."
- "She should make decisions the way she did before she knew me. I'm totally in favor of discussing important issues with one another, but since we've been married it seems that she's lost all of her confidence."
7. Time to relax
- "Why can't she let me take a nap without talking me into guilt?"
- "She should stop complaining if I don't do chores – I just don't have time for it."
8. Thrift
- "I wish she would stick to our budget …"
- "You should spend less money."
9. Openness
- "It would be so nice if she communicated openly and honestly with me and made clear announcements."
- "She just has to talk to me about the important things."
10. Do not drill
- "Please, for heaven's sake, don't ask me what I'm thinking about! I don't think about anything, darling!"