Be careful, egomaniac!
10 warning signs that your partner is a total jerk
No thanks: You should end a idiot relationship sooner rather than later.
“Totally idiot” may sound harsh, but if your partner is only emitting five of these ten warning signals, you should flee as soon as possible. Watch the video to see what to look out for!
Sad but true: far too many of us are in a relationship that just makes us unhappy. And why? Because our partner is a complete idiot.
Don’t fall into the idiot trap!
The problem is almost always the same: love is blind at first, and when we’re in love we’re all too happy to overlook the few things we don’t like about our new partner. After all, we are in love, and anyway: who among us is perfect ourselves? The boundaries between “lovable quirk” and “loud alarm siren, which also indicates a real personality problem”, quickly become blurred. And even the supposed little things that bother us often reveal that our partner is not the person we think they are.
yourself to blame?
And unfortunately, we also make it far too easy for the idiots in our lives: Because unlike them, we have healthy self-doubt. When asked about blatant misconduct, the standard explanation of the complete idiot is always the counter question: “Why are you acting like that again?” And it’s already rattling in our heads. Are we really in line? Are we too sensitive? And yes, we’ve been bitching around a lot lately – maybe we’re the problem too? No, the problem is not you, the problem is the idiot. And he nods contentedly while you examine yourselves in detail, and he’s fine.
Hold on or flee?
In long-term relationships in particular, we are often in an unsatisfactory intermediate state: Yes, we are not really happy about everything that is happening in the relationship – but why break up completely right away? That’s kind of an exaggeration, isn’t it? And maybe something will change, he just apologized for something the other day… you can see it for yourself, right? When you’re caught in the idiot trap, there can only be one path: Away from control, manipulation, and self-doubt and toward freedom and a healthy perspective on life and yourself.
are you affected Here’s how to find out!
Whether your partner is a complete idiot is usually told by your gut feeling when you think about him. But you can also go through the warning signs from the video above – if he has five of these traits (or more) then you should really start thinking about whether this relationship will make you truly happy. The idiot doesn’t care at all as long as his needs continue to be met. But you deserve better!