Relationship problems?
10 warning signs that your partner is a complete idiot
No, thanks: You should end a complete idiot relationship sooner rather than later.
“Complete idiot” may sound harsh, but if your partner only sends out five of these ten warning signs, you should flee as soon as possible. See in the video what to look out for!
Sad but true: Far too many of us are in a relationship that just makes us unhappy. And why? Because our partner is a complete idiot.
Don’t fall into the idiot trap!
The problem is almost always the same: love is initially blind, and when we are freshly in love we are only too happy to overlook the few things that we don’t like about our new partner. After all, we’re in love, and anyway: who of us is perfect ourselves? The boundaries between “lovable quirk” and “loud alarm siren that also indicates a real personality problem” quickly become blurred. And even the supposed little things that bother us often reveal in their sum that our partner is not the person we think them to be.
Is it your own fault?
And unfortunately we make it far too easy for the idiots in our lives: because unlike them we have healthy self-doubts. When asked about blatant misconduct, the standard explanation of the idiots is always the counter-question: “Why are you standing in line again?” And already it’s rattling in our heads. Are we really standing in line? Are we too sensitive? And it’s true, we’ve been grumbling a lot lately – maybe we’re the problem too? No, the problem is not you, the problem is the complete idiot. And he nods contentedly, while you examine yourselves carefully inside, and is fine.
Stay tuned or take flight?
Especially in long-term relationships, we are often in an unsatisfactory intermediate state: Yes, we are not really happy about everything that happens in the relationship – but do you want to break up completely? That’s kind of exaggerated, isn’t it? And maybe something will change too, he recently apologized for something … you will notice it yourself, right? If you’re stuck in the idiot trap, there can only be one way: away from control, manipulation and self-doubt and towards freedom and a healthy perspective on life and yourself.
Are you concerned? Here’s how to find out!
Your gut feeling usually tells you whether your partner is a complete idiot when you think of him. But you can also go over the warning signs from the video above – if he has five of these traits (or more) you should really think seriously about whether this relationship makes you really happy. The idiot doesn’t care as long as his needs continue to be met. But you deserve better!