Send them to the desert! Ending friendship is also a solution

  • The other is jealous
  • Unfortunately, it doesn't happen so rarely that friends think they have claims that they can make loud. It may have been okay in elementary school that Mila was piqued if you just met Greta without asking. But when you grow up, that's none of your business to Mila. Friendship and time together is a gift that you don't ask for! Those who don't understand this can confidently look for new friends in the desert. Camels are supposed to be very loyal too.

  • Your togetherness is over and you won't find a new one
  • Man, was it funny to get upset with Erik about Frau Musa, the annoying math teacher, and to throw her little paper ball on her back. If you haven't found another topic of conversation with Erik 10 years later, it might be time to let Erik go. Then he has more time for people who are also interested in quantum physics and you can finally leave Ms. Musa behind you.

  • You are constantly being criticized for things that belong to you
  • There are those people you just don't fit in with. They grin in embarrassment when you're too loud again, they roll their eyes when you change your mind because that's a really bad trait in their eyes and they like to advise you to just be a little different from you just are. Of course, these people have their right to exist and we live in a free country, no question about it. But why the hell do you call them your friends?

  • Actually, you don't feel like meeting
  • If a friendship has a permanent place on the to-do list and meeting is one of the most popular items to be postponed, this may be a sign …

  • The other one keeps you small
  • If your girlfriend is telling you that the guy might not be your league and you'd better try the social phobic next door, then that guy in the other league should either be George Clooney or your girlfriend should find someone else to talk her into that she did not deserve the very great happiness. Friends should encourage and not slow you down! Belongs to the golden rules.

  • You feel guilty all the time
  • Very bad: Friends who have a bad conscience. Everyone has definitely had it at some point. You feel terrible all the time. For example, because you dare to have fallen in love when you were such great single friends. Or because you missed asking on the right day how the interview went. Well, sometimes it just happens. And it should be allowed to.

  • The other is not loyal
  • That your Monday flu was a very free interpretation of your hangover somehow suddenly ends up with your boss? And the embarrassing photo from Saturday is posted on Facebook without being asked? If you'd rather lose a friend than miss a punchline, please do so and look around for a new victim. And goodbye!

  • When envy eats one of you
  • Envy is not a feeling to boast about, no. But it is a feeling that exists and if you are not the Dalai Lama you know it yourself. In a friendship, however, envy really makes you unhappy. Both of them. Either you find a solution to deal with the imbalance, or it is time to feel good again in other friendships.

  • The friendship has become one-sided
  • "I'll get in touch," he said seven months ago, and then he was gone. Of course, you can now ignore thirty times that HE wanted to report and do it yourself again. But you should really only do it if the other person is a rather spoiled specimen. Because in case of doubt, “not reporting” could be a sign of disinterest. And for people who are not interested in you, your time is definitely too good, isn't it? Sometimes an unspoken “goodbye” is somehow more bearable than a big drama. Natural selection or something. It works well when you're ready to let go. When in doubt, this is sometimes better for both sides than to hold on doggedly to something that has no doubt just passed its golden days.