March 19, 2020
From fake orgasm to real
Pretend orgasm? We don't. We have learned. After all, we really want to reach the climax and partners are welcome to know if this is currently not working – the higher the motivation to experiment. Now we have heard a completely different opinion: it should even Good be faking an orgasm!
How so? Sex columnist Mimi Eckhardt has her own theory that actually sounds very plausible. She thinks that if you play it first, you can get a real orgasm much sooner. Because you not only trick your head, but the faster movement, breathing and friction can really trigger the climax.
What comes to mind: Once the orgasm is played, we automatically free ourselves from the subconscious pressure to have to come – and also the partner's expectations. And we all know what role the head plays in sex. Well, it's worth a try, isn't it ?!
03/18/2020
Good news!
At what age do you have the best sex? We would now generally say that this cannot be determined at all – after all, sex life always depends on individual factors. However, there is a survey by the app manufacturer Natural Cycle, which we do not want to withhold from you …
Because the result of the examination makes us want to get older. Women of different ages were asked about their sex life and their satisfaction with it. The result: The older the test subjects, the more positive they rated their sex life!
There is even an exact age group: 86 percent of women aged 36 and over stated that they had had good sex within the past four weeks. They clearly led the younger groups. And not only that: 80 percent also confirmed that they felt attractive.
So the older we get, the more comfortable we feel in our bodies – and the better sex we have. Well, if that's not a good prospect ?!
More sex = more salary?
Hardly anyone complains about a little more salary. But that we should just have sex more often – we really haven't figured that out yet. And no, we are not talking about sexual relationships in the workplace. Researchers from Athens and Bonn have examined the relationship between the frequency of sex and income.
The result was surprising: In fact, people who have sexual intercourse more should earn more. There is even an exact number: Those who have sex more than four times a week have a higher salary, according to the study.
How can that be? Researchers explain the connection as follows: Sexual activity could be a barometer of health, well-being and quality of life. And those who are healthy and happy are also more successful in their jobs. It's all about the charisma … Well – it's worth a try, isn't it?
03/17/2020
3 good reasons to masturbate every day now
Hard times require hard measures: If we now spend a lot of time at home, we can also use it for a little self-love. No, we're not talking about painting your stretch marks or finally walking around without makeup (even if that's always a good idea). Solo sex is the magic word.
Honestly, how often do you masturbate? Take a challenge: try to get yourself an orgasm every day for a week. This is fun and drives boredom away. Not convinced yet? We have three good reasons for daily solo sex for you:
- Your tension subsides: our heads are buzzing with pandemic news. Let us take a break – masturbating helps against stress. This is due to the hormones released, including oxytocin, which relaxes you. And we really need that right now.
- You sleep better: After an orgasm, the worries that usually plague us before falling asleep are gone!
- Your sex gets better: you get to know your body differently through regularity – and especially your erogenous zones. This gives you sexual self-confidence, which also benefits you during sex with your partner …
Looking for good sex? Off to this state …
Would your sex life be an exam, with which grade would you rate it? The initiators of a survey for the dating platform "secret.de" wanted to know and asked people across Germany. And tada – in fact, there was a clear trend towards the federal state!
And these are the winners:
- 1st place: Mecklenburg-Western Pomerania with 2.2
- 2nd place: Thuringia with 2.5
- 3rd place: Berlin with 2.7
Participants from these federal states rated their sex best. Hamburg, Lower Saxony and Bremen performed the worst – they only awarded an average of 3.1.
March 16, 2020
A rule, double fun
Everything used to be so fiery. And at some point, secretly, everyday life moved into your bed. You have already felt every touch, tried every position of your repertoire. It's time for something new! So that there is no boredom in love life, no fancy sex toys are required (even if it is also worth trying them out). We present: The surprise rule!
- Put your sex life under one motto every week. For example: places.
- Now you try something new every day.
- For example, on Mondays you just have sex on the wide side of the bed instead of the normal length.
- On Tuesdays there is only sex on the sofa.
- And so on…
You don't have to fall on top of each other every day. It is rather about getting involved in something new together. And even tiny changes, such as actually changing the bed side, can cause completely new sparks between you. Behind it is the surprise effect – it helps you to break out of your usual scheme. Just give it a try, the rest will happen on its own …
Sex despite period? Now more than ever!
Some do it naturally, others declare their intimate area to be a restricted area. We're talking about sex during the period that still divides all couples.
Now researchers have devoted a study to the topic – and this produces surprising results. On the one hand, only 21 percent of men stated that they preferred not to have sex during menstruation, compared to 34 percent of women. But the examination of women who have sex regularly during their period is more exciting. Because that resulted in:
71 percent of women said they had an easier or easier way to orgasm during the period!
Well, if that's not an argument? The reason for this will probably be the better blood flow to the genital organs. Some women therefore feel a special desire for sex even during their days …
Not convinced yet? Find out why you should masturbate at least during the period and … the best positions for sex during the period.
Sources used: The Sleep Judge, Focus