Most of us probably know that there are a few isolated men here and there who put a lot of effort into getting a woman to bed. But can you really blame them? Maybe sex with a woman is such a hammer that some men do everything for it …
Joking aside, but seriously: what's wrong with trying a bed in a friend's house, for example, even when we're straight? Honestly: Somehow we couldn't think of much. Ina and Vanessa, two lesbian ladies from Berlin, chatted a bit out of the box and told us what they value about lesbian sex. And what should we say? Sounds pretty tempting … and one should try as much as possible in life anyway. Or not?
7 reasons why sex with a woman is the most beautiful
1. Empathy (and creativity)
Women just know how to do it! Since you are a woman yourself, you can guess what your partner might like, and vice versa. In bed, a woman comes up with ideas on her own, which you could not even explain to a man with diagrams and power point presi.
2. Women are beautiful
The female body – sensuality, intensity, tenderness, passion, pure sex! Just think of the touch of her soft, well-groomed skin, the gentle curves and her smooth movements …
3. Cuddle
Women love to cuddle, there is simply not too much cuddling for us. It creates a wonderful feeling of intimacy and awakens our lust more reliably than any porn. When it comes to cuddling, the same common denominator – as two women usually are – lifts the sexual part of a relationship into another dimension.
4. Foreplay
Foreplay is simply important for women, for anatomical reasons alone. We now need more lead time to get into full swing, so we can apparently enjoy it more intensely than men (thanks, clitoris!). Letting go of all the time in the foreplay and doing everything and trying out what makes the thermometer rise, if you understand … we can really recommend it to every woman!
5. You learn something about yourself
For example, if your partner does something with you that she wants or likes, you will often realize what you like! Or you try something with her and find out: Holy moly, I did not expect such a reaction – but now please with me!
6. The sex is harmonious and relaxed
Sure, sex with a man is certainly also harmonious and relaxed for many women. But when you are in bed with a woman, you both want and need exactly the same thing! You do not have to hurry up or put it back for the sake of the other, but really do a thing together! This makes it an unforgettable highlight every time.
7. The charm of the "mysterious"
Fortunately, same-sex sex is no longer prohibited or no longer considered perverse or something, but for us the first time with a woman was still particularly exciting – although in contrast to the first sex, it was anything but a disappointment …
Any questions? You can find out more about Vanessa and Ina on their Instagram account, Vaginasontourx, or on YouTube at the link: Vaginasontour x.