Instead of consulting a love coach, a single man had the original idea of asking married men on the web about the mistakes they regretted having made within their relationship. Their responses are edifying.
A single American internet user asked a multitude of married men what mistakes they regretted most about their marriage. These married men, who were all complete strangers, did not hesitate to answer him honestly. Their experience is instructive and valuable for those who wish to get married or who are experiencing problems in their relationship. By gathering their messages on the web, this single person has not only collected valuable advice that will be useful to him if he gets into a relationship, but it is advice that is useful to everyone.
The rest after this ad
The site Upworthy.com has brought together all these testimonies in an article and we have chosen to reveal to you here that they told this single person… Their answers are surprising, touching, fair, lucid, often revealing, and many women and men will undoubtedly recognize themselves in these universal truths about marriage.
The main regrets of these married men
- “Your wife ends up becoming what you tell her. I regret not saying more good things to him” explains a married man.
- “In difficult times, don’t blame her. It’s up to you two to face the problem together…” writes another.
- “Listen to her when she speaks from her heartbecause once she feels ignored, she will shut down for a long time, if not forever” advises another man.
- “Not all women age gracefully despite their good looks and physique. Marry your partner for other reasons other than her body and beautybecause it is FOREVER” said another married man
The rest after this ad
- “My biggest regret in my marriage was cheating on my wife…After that she was never the same…so my advice is to never cheat, ever” confesses a man.
- “We tend to take our spouse for granted once we’re married. Continue to take care of her. You won’t regret it and she will know that you really care to her” confides a man.
Constructive thoughts for couples
Many women have also had the opportunity to consult this web page filled with regrets from married men and they particularly appreciated these mea culpa…“After reading this comments section, I believe in marriage again. Relationships aren’t perfect, but we have to try with people who want to try ” writes a woman. “I don’t know why I’m crying…I guess I didn’t know men like these existed…Your wives must be blessed” confides another woman.
The rest after this ad
This is enough to give hope to many couples who are struggling. Maybe by following these wise tips, love will last forever…
News journalist
A true jack-of-all-trades, passionate about travel, culture, society, people and beauty, Saliha writes for various media such as Escapade magazine, the GEOguide collection by Gallimard, Le Figaro…