The quick number in between is good, but it only gets really really good if you take a lot of time for yourself. We explain here how to get the really good orgasm.
Masturbation often looks like this: We are somehow hot, dig out our favorite toy, quickly made comfortable somewhere and it's over in a flash. Sometimes that's enough, but sometimes it leaves a vague feeling of "Hm, that's it ?!" Just a quickie. Now and then we should treat ourselves more! Slowgasm is the magic word and is supposed to elicit magical mega orgasms. Of course, we'll tell you how to do this here.
Slowgasm, we're coming!
1. Preparation is everything
It's about doing something really good for you. And that starts with the preparation. Think about what you need now. Make yourself comfortable, take a bath, treat yourself to a nice hot shower or light candles – anything that stimulates your mood is good.
2. Treat yourself to a self-massage
It doesn't matter whether it's massage oil or fragrant body lotion. The main thing is that you pamper yourself. Try to concentrate completely on the feeling of rubbing in and gently massaging your body. It gets even more intense when you close your eyes.
3. Head cinema on
Do you want to give your pleasure center a little more boost? How about an erotic (audio) book, a film that turns you on, or just classic porn? Maybe your imagination is enough.
4. Provide variety
You probably also have your favorite toy or a very tried and tested, but perhaps also a bit worn-out masturbation routine. It doesn't always have to be the classic vibrator. The market is now huge. Maybe you will try a clitoral stimulator or explore the anal area with a slim dildo. Especially if you come quickly with a vibrator, it is worth just using your hands here.
5. Keep it slow
Don't be fooled by any porn that has women squirming and moaning like there's no tomorrow. Nobody is watching, you don't have to put on a show. Just stay with yourself and with slow gas it's best to move as little as possible. Pay close attention to your body. Feel your breathing, your heartbeat, the touch and the muscles in your pelvic floor. If you notice that the arousal is increasing, slowly get faster and intensify the movements until you can hardly bear it and finally the vaginal muscles contract in a pulsating manner.
6. Let it flow
Enjoy the waves of orgasm, keep your eyes closed and feel inside yourself. Even now, take the time to let everything happen very slowly and enjoy absolute relaxation.