Have you ever heard of the K point? This area would be the source of powerful orgasms. How to reach it? Thanks to the Kivin method, a sexual technique that promises intense pleasure (and a memorable cunnilingus!) In 3 minutes flat.
After point G, point A or point P, here is point K. This one is located between the glans of the clitoris and the anal region and owes its name to Dr. Kivin, at the origin of his discovery. To achieve it, the scientist developed the Kivin method, a sexual technique designed to make a woman cum in just 3 minutes.
What is the Kivin method?
The Kivin method is quite simply a technique of oral sex ! And to believe this American Reddit discussion board, it is worth testing. “There are some pretty bold claims about its effectiveness – an orgasm in three minutes and 60% of women and people with a vagina experience faster, more intense orgasms, according to a sex therapist. It’s worth trying it out just to see if these claims are true ”, says Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship expert interviewed by Cosmopolitan UK.
Concretely, what changes with this method? Well, Dr. Kivin recommends doing sideways cunnilingus for intense, explosive pleasure in just 3 minutes. In short, it is a lateral cunnilingus, image used by sex therapist Maria Renee Stewart, co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay, who has been teaching this technique for years.
How to practice the Kivin method?
Lying on her back, the partner who receives cunnilingus has one leg raised, under which the donor slips into it, so as to place his mouth in front of his partner’s vulva. Then, he or she can stimulate the perineum region (the area between the vagina and the anus) with a finger for more intense sensations and to feel the muscle contractions. The ideal? Stimulate all erogenous zones, focusing on the head of the clitoris with the tongue when orgasm approaches.
The Kivin method allows better access to the entire vulva and the clitoris, to the delight of those who only have an orgasm with this organ dedicated to pleasure. And this is not the only advantage of practicing lateral cunnilingus, it allows the donor to have access to the sex of his partner without being in a position that is too uncomfortable.
Do not make orgasm the goal at all costs
Although this technique is talked about as a must to achieve orgasm, it doesn’t necessarily work for everyone, or at least, every time. But what is interesting with the Kivin method is that it encourages experimentation and stimulation of erogenous zones often neglected during oral or penetrative sex such as the perineum. This is why it is essential to communicate with his or her partner before attempting this position, but also during, in order to guide him or her or ask him or her what he or she likes.
Keep in mind that orgasm doesn’t always have to be the end goal of sex. The pressure of having an orgasm or making someone cum (especially in less than three minutes) can lead to performance anxiety and keep you from enjoying yourself.
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