The worst “kills love” according to women (and men)

A tiny detail for some but which can trigger in others a real revulsion, the end of a desire, the beginning of a disgust … or small habits that we have endured for a long time but which ultimately become no. negotiable. In life, the “kills of love” concern both women and men. It is often quite epidermal as a reaction and it can encourage us to flee a man or a woman for whom we nevertheless thought to have deep feelings and with whom we wanted to share a beautiful story.

In short, what are these love kills that knock out a partner, a couple’s story, whether it is from the first meetings or after several years as a couple? This can be as much a question of sexuality as of hygiene or even of culture. Suddenly, for a detail that we will consider totally non-sexy, the relationship can collapse. We only have one desire: to flee his or her partner or to want to send him or her to the other side of the world. Small anthology of the most often cited love kills, those which are often synonymous with rupture. Be careful, these little details – which are not – apply to both men and women!

The “kills love” on the first date

According to some specialists in seduction, a few minutes are enough to know if the person pleases us or not. If in addition, love kills them encrusted at the rendezvous … it is not won!
– A jackal’s breath: whether he had eaten a sea urchin stuffed with garlic before meeting us or whether he had dental problems to solve, the result is the same: rather than a man, we would still rather kiss a garbage bag! To flee if he does not make a great effort to treat his cavities and putrid breath and refuses to follow the advice of his dentist. Kärcher way.
– Dirty nails: we tolerate questionable nails if he is a painter and has just left his workshop or if they are the product of an express repair of a flat tire. And again, during a pandemic, it is difficult to justify hands that are not regularly washed. So … hang out!
– French mistakes: we had already noticed some small conjugation errors during email exchanges. They had been blamed on a faulty keyboard. But there, her: “it’s Marie’s daughter, my mother’s friend” and her “you really say interesting things” is crippling! We want a guy, not a kid who hasn’t spent enough time studying. So go back and take French lessons or… next!
– A doubtful fragrance: between the one who sprayed himself with three liters of cheap after-shave (like the worst, Ax and Scorpion) and who could pierce the ozone layer on his own and the one who smells so much sweat that we could follow him. No doubt, they have the worst smells Our heart does not hesitate and it cries out to the world: it hurts!
– Heavy humor: he thinks he’s funny and brings out the whole repertoire of the good valves heard by the Big Heads of your friends and your family. If some make us smile vaguely (even if we stay away from English humor), other sexist, racist or homophobic jokes make us cringe. We are not going to tell each other a story, we are ready to bite the Bigard that lies dormant in him. This kind of guy is without ceremony.
– Show off: We haven’t been installed for 10 minutes and we already know that he spent his last vacation with Laeticia and Jalil, that his last bonus is equivalent to Djibouti’s GNP, which he missed by half point entry to Polytechnic (because one of the jurors was jealous of him), that he visited all the countries of the Earth, is the king of sex … His favorite expression? “Me I”. Anyway, this person is just terrific … smelly!
– Ex-addict: “Vanessa has big blue eyes and a mischievous little smile”, “when we went to Chiapas with Vanessa”, “Vanessa’s mother makes the best cakes”, “Vanessa gave me the shirt that I wears today “… But it is because she seems brilliant this Vanessa whose ears he has not stopped bathing us for an hour! But why isn’t he with her, then? Maybe she broke down when he talked to her all the time about Celine, her previous ex?
– Wandering eyes: you have the impression of having a drink with Tex Avery’s wolf, the one whose tongue hangs out and eyes pop out of their sockets as soon as a bomb passes within a radius of 50 meters! It’s simple, sir is a mateur and can not help looking at all the women who pass. As if you weren’t there. Worse ! He dares to make comments to you; like you’re a mate. We are not going to put our spleen on court bouillon, our health above all, then… next!
– Sir / Madam “I have planned everything”: often woman varies. It is true that we do not always know what we want and that we often blame men for their fear of getting involved. But from there to fall in love right away for this almost unknown who is already talking to you about starting a family, asks you for your favorite names for your children, plans a Sunday lunch with his parents, plans a ski vacation with his friends and a weekend. end in Trouville, there are limits. It’s even a bit suspicious, isn’t it?

The “kills love” in bed

You thought it was won because you said “I love you” and have been making a common quilt for a while? Error, serious error! Love kills roam and can jump out at you / him when you never expected.
– Excessive jealousy: “Where were you? With whom? You like her, huh, Marie, the new intern?”. If at first these little questions from your boyfriend could be taken as proof of love or at least as a sign of attention, they can quickly become a real poison for your relationship, whether it is a. colleague or an anonymous one. We go easily from the stage of innocent interrogation to that of a search worthy of a customs officer: cellphones, pockets, messengers, email addresses … Everything goes. It becomes obsessive and ends up rotting your relationship. Lover or not, he must respect your private garden. In fine, one of the two will inevitably end up cracking.
– Change the other at all costs: It had started nicely: an encouragement to change your hairstyle, change her makeup, swap her pants that were too short for designer clothes. But we moved up a gear by suggesting that the other also change friends, profession, hobbies … In short, we would like someone else and this did not escape the first concerned which no longer recognizes itself: neither in the mirror nor in your gaze. A couple is also accepting the difference of the other …
– “You let yourself go”: just listen to the song of Aznavour to understand everything and quickly get back in hand. By dint of living together, we no longer make an effort. We hang out in shapeless t-shirts and jogging, we shave our armpits in front of him, we answer in monosyllable, we have each gained 15 kilos, we slouch in front of the TV without speaking … install and kill our love. It’s sad: there is still time to act!

A few steps have already been taken successfully and the desire has set in. Why not let yourself be tempted? Ouch, the little details that kill can also be found in the bedroom or in your love nest … We stay on the lookout!
– A cracra house: certain “details” are non-negotiable for many of us: the rooms that smell musty, the bowls of super yucky wawa, the edges of tubs colonized by mold (it is our health!) and the hairs that squat in the siphon, the dirty sheets that have not been changed since the last heatwave, the ashtrays filled with cigarette ends and littering every square inch … Not to mention the piles of Playboys and Penthouses right next to the toilets! Far from being manic, we ask for a minimum of hygiene and tact! We may be “in love”, we have eyes and nostrils …
– The man almost naked: Obviously, to each his own and far from us the idea of ​​judging certain physical characteristics. But some small details can irritate every pore of our being. An old kangaroo brief, boxer shorts with holes and the elasticity of which gave up the ghost a long time ago. Toenails reminiscent of the claws of a grizzly bear, a body odor that makes us nauseous, hair in unexpected places, socks that you don’t take off during romantic relationships … a list no exhaustive which remains to be completed!
– During the act: We allow ourselves the right to cry if the word “foreplay” is not part of your partner’s habits in bed, if he thinks he is a pornstar by not even giving you a glance. Not to mention his choice of words which may make some jump and purr others. To each its verbal love kills. A “come here, slut” or a “I can fit my garden hose into your little garden of love” can therefore be seen as as much love kills as stimulants once in bed!

Couple: “love kills” that can ruin a relationship

You thought it was won because you said “I love you” and have been making a common quilt for a while? Error, serious error! Love kills roam and can jump out at you / him when you never expected.
– Excessive jealousy: “Where were you? With whom? You like her, huh, Marie, the new intern?”. If at first these little questions from your boyfriend could be taken as proof of love or at least as a sign of attention, they can quickly become a real poison for your relationship, whether it is a. colleague or an anonymous person. We go easily from the stage of innocent interrogation to that of a search worthy of a customs officer: cellphones, pockets, messengers, email addresses … Everything goes. It becomes obsessive and ends up rotting your relationship. Lover or not, he must respect your private garden. In fine, one of the two will inevitably end up cracking.
– Change the other at all costs: It had started nicely: an encouragement to change your hairstyle, change her makeup, swap her pants that were too short for designer clothes. But we moved up a gear by suggesting that the other also change friends, profession, hobbies … In short, we would like someone else and this did not escape the first concerned which no longer recognizes itself: neither in the mirror nor in your gaze. A couple is also accepting the difference of the other …
– “You let yourself go”: just listen to the song of Aznavour to understand everything and quickly get back in hand. By dint of living together, we no longer make an effort. We hang out in the least sexy shapeless t-shirt and jogging possible, we shave our armpits in front of him, we answer in monosyllable, we each gained 15 kilos, we slouch in front of the TV without speaking to each other, sexuality is at half mast … We let the routine set in and kill our love. It’s sad but there is still time to act and react by realizing it!