Is your relationship becoming boring with repetition? HackSpirit magazine has listed eight habits that could be possible causes.
The feeling of love sometimes tends to dull under the onslaught of everyday life. However, even in long-term relationships, boredom is not inevitable. The American magazine even proclaims that once rid of eight bad habits, it is possible to climb back the slippery slope of routine.
The first bad attitude is to get used to routine to the point of becoming dependent on it. There is something comforting about habits. The couple sometimes tends to wallow there. Always try to insert unplanned moments into your established schedules. New recipe to concoct together, surprise the other by going to pick it up from the office… The important thing is to disrupt, just a little bit, an overly calculated daily life. The second bad habit would be to have discussions only focused on practical topics. So, don’t hesitate to make the effort to ask your other half deep questions. There is always something new to explore in someone. The third bad habit is cutting back on evenings for two. These shared moments are important when it comes to emotional intensity. Do not hesitate to plan dates in advance to meet you.
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How to “stay connected”?
The question of common interests is also important. Not sharing any area of curiosity represents the sixth bad habit. It can in fact “be difficult to find common ground to stay connected to each other” if we don’t share any common goal, quote Kendra Cherry from Verywell Mind, psychology educator. Talk about books, movies, share ideas about something you both love. The seventh bad habit is having only common hobbies. How can we remember that we are an independent and autonomous individual if all our activities are shared between two people? Go out alone, create mystery, flourish without needing anyone! You will then have more things to share with each other. Finally, the eighth bad habit is very contemporary. This is the one that involves spending too much time in front of a screen. This unhealthy attachment to virtuality is often to the detriment of human relationships. The solution to detoxification? Set strict login times, for example.
Camille Bonvalet has an interest in societal subjects and feminist issues. She is also passionate about literature. Versatile, she appreciates the prose of Flaubert as much as that of Michel…