Life as a couple is not a long, quiet river… And arguments are part of the turmoil. However, although the subjects of conflict are diverse and varied, there is one that always comes up. Guess which one?
Arguments within a relationship are an inevitable part of any relationship. They are oftent the sign of disagreements and tensions which may emerge due to differences in values, opinions or needs. Although they can sometimes seem destructive, when handled constructively, conflicts can also serve as catalysts forr the dynamics of the relationship. Learning to navigate these arguments is essential to maintaining a healthy relationship.
The reasons for arguments in a couple can vary… Le sharing of household choreseducation children are often frequent sources of arguments. But according to a recent study, relayed by the site YourTango, It is money that is said to be the most frequent cause of arguments within couples. We explain why!
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A problem of point of view and a lack of understanding
Differing views on financial management are often the cause of arguments. One of the spouses may consider that it is necessary to spend little and save money to deal with possible difficulties while the other spouse may think that, on the contrary, one should prioritize leisure activities, shopping, going out to restaurants, etc. When these two visions are confronted with each other, a clash is guaranteed.
The other most common problem is that it is often a single partner who assumes the bulk of the financial responsibilities. And on the other hand, we often ask too much of them and the unnecessary expenses end up weighing all the more as this person generally works endless hours to provide for the needs of the whole family… In these cases, sooner or later, the couple ends up arguing.
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A subject that is too often taboo and a source of imbalance in the couple
Money is a sensitive subject in romantic relationships but once you live with someone, there are expenses that come into play and you cannot avoid the subject of finances indefinitely…In reality, money problems always end up catching up with the couple and The ostrich technique is the best way for the relationship to be affected by repeated arguments. Another common case: one of the two spouses earns a very good living and the person with whom he is in a relationship is financially dependent on him, without really being able to take part in decisions concerning expenses. A standoff often ensues at the slightest opportunity. This calls into question the balance of the couple and causes numerous arguments.
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To avoid arguing about money, the best solution is to talk openly about your finances and communicate better. You should also try to control your negative emotions and compromise as much as possible.
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