If we know that there are warning signs, announcing a potential deception, some researchers have also noticed that there is a kind of “pattern” common to unfaithful people. This precise pattern would thus allow their partners to predict infidelity before it actually happens. What is it?
undergo a infidelity is one of the most difficult to live for a person in love. Indeed, such an act can not only destroy the entity that is the couple, but also the partner who has been cheated: alteration of self-confidence, avoidance strategies, fear of commitment… Thus, deception , combined with other elements of his life story, jeopardizes access to healthy love for the individual who suffers it.
In this sense, some people who have already experienced it are traumatized and never recover from it; to such an extent that they will even seek to avoid it and try as much as possible to protect themselves from it. The work of these Dutch researchers will potentially help them… According to the conclusions of their study*, there would be a behavioral pattern encouraging committed partners to cheat. For nearly 8 years, 1000 individuals engaged in serious relationships have been observed.
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Here’s the Precise Pattern That Predicts Possible Deception, Study Finds
Following these years of study, scientists have found that acts of infidelity are in fact preceded by a fall in indicators of satisfaction and well-being in the relationship. In other words, we are already unhappy in marriage before passing the course of infidelity. This malaise also affects the two lovers; not just one who deceives.
These are therefore the marital problemsarguments, disagreements, stress, low level of well-being and relational fulfillment that lead to looking elsewhere.
An observation that sweeps away certain prejudices concerning infidelity: in general, we tend to think that this dissatisfaction only occurs after adultery…
Infidelity: a repetitive pattern, similar to a vicious circle that never ends?
But the reverse is also true. Following an act of infidelity, the fulfillment and well-being of the two individuals who have chosen to give each other another chance, diminishes considerably over time. We were unhappy before the betrayal, and we are even more so afterwards.
However, if we stick to this precise behavioral pattern, which says “low level of well-being”, says “high chances of deception”… An individual who cheats once would then be more likely to be unhappy and deceive many times ? This is a good reason to justify the repetitive behavior of chronic infidels.
In order not to suffer and cause suffering in the future, the best solution might be to leave… Another alternative for the most optimistic: try to solve your relationship problems before they grow up and end up pushing one of the two to fault.