Have you been wondering for several months if your partner is cheating on you? A private detective who has worked in the industry for years will reveal to you the main signs and clues that may suggest deception. We tell you everything!
Is your relationship on the rocks? Have you felt like you’re drifting away from your partner for several months? In the minds of many people, this type of question is often accompanied by THE fateful question: is your partner cheating on you? So, to help you see more clearly, a private detective, Tom Martin, having worked on numerous cases of deception, reveals in the columns of the magazine The Independentthe main warning signs that a person is unfaithful.
Indeed, according to the detective, unfaithful people generally follow the same pattern which is easily identifiable if you focus on it. Certain signs are unmistakable, and when the question arises, there is most often cause for concern. So you also want to finally know the truth and know if your partner is cheating on you? Tom Martin reveals the twenty signs to take into consideration to detect an unfaithful person, but be careful, each sign taken separately does not necessarily mean that your partner has gone elsewhere, he also explains to you the moment from which you should be concerned .
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The twenty signs of infidelity
Being a former American federal agent, Tom Martin decided to retrain as a private detective. It is in this context that man has often been able to investigate fickle partners and identify the signs and behaviors that are most often repeated:
- A sudden change in habits
- Leave home early and come home late
- Increase business travel
- Being absent during a family event or during the holiday season
- Working an unusual and excessive amount of overtime
- Making unexplained expenses
- Keep your social media accounts and email addresses secret
- Hide bills or credit card receipts
- Take more care of yourself and get ready more often
- Showing signs of an external person on you such as the smell of an unfamiliar perfume or lipstick on a shirt
- Buying gifts that never come home
- The unexplained presence of objects that shouldn’t be there like condoms in a car
- Having missed calls from unknown numbers on your phone
- Join a gym
- Use coded or secret messages
- Have less sex with your partner
- Being evasive when your partner asks questions to the point of aggression
- Brazenly lying
- Switch for a spicy, even angry character
- Saying you don’t like surprise visits
Be careful, if you notice some of these behaviors in your partner, this does not mean that he or she is necessarily cheating on you! He or she may want to get back into sports or get a new haircut without you inevitably having doubts about him or her. So if you spot some of these signs, don’t jump to the wrong conclusions, but “if you’ve counted three or four, you have a problem,” says Tom Martin. But if you don’t want to destroy a precious relationship, the professional advises to always discuss with your partner before anything else.
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