When it comes to love and language, the classics full of pathos quickly come to mind. "I love you" for example. Yeah, why not? But above all, there are questions that really keep love fresh. Especially these three:
1. Do we still have toilet paper?
Sounds really stupid now, but questions of this kind keep the relationship fresh. Why it is like that? Because we stay in the conversation and strengthen the team spirit, even if in this case it's only about toilet paper. Researchers found that happy couples do much more talking to each other in everyday activities like shopping than unhappy couples. It is not clear what determines what, but the fact is: more is simply more when it comes to communication. And it doesn't always have to be the in-depth emo club.
2. How was it for you when we …
Reminiscing together welds together. You immediately feel freshly in love again and easily awaken the slumbering butterflies to a new round trip through your stomach and heart. If you then ask about the partner's view, you also get an insight into his soul worlds. You also signal to the partner that you are interested in their thoughts. CHECK.
3. What do you need from me?
According to research, a sentence that can save relationships. Actually logical, because most relationship problems arise from disappointed expectations, misunderstandings and the famous "irreconcilable differences". But sometimes they are not so insurmountable, we only lack the knowledge of how we can help our partner. Even if the answer is "my calm", you shouldn't be offended. It is precisely these five minutes that may well end a day that would otherwise have degenerated into a small relationship disaster.