What do you not have to say to your partner?

Of course we should be able to talk to our darling about everything – but that doesn't mean we have to …

No question at all: We are one hundred percent for honesty in relationships! After all, it just shows that if we deliberately lie to them, we don't trust our partner completely. On the other hand … a harmless white lie has not harmed anyone. During puberty, for example, how often did we save our relationship with our parents by turning the truth around a little here and there or by hiding something? Ultimately everything is always a question of perspective anyway and we are free to share whatever of our own we consider necessary with others … if we think twice: There are some things that we can safely keep to ourselves, especially if we believe that otherwise we will do harm for good. To name just a few examples …

8 things you don't absolutely have to tell your partner

1. That he sometimes reminds you of your papa

We often look for men who resemble our father – but do we have to keep rubbing it under their noses? Rather nope!

2. How much your new top really cost

Is it your money or is it your money If he doesn't have a sense of fashion and style, he won't understand that sometimes both have their price. So why make your head smoke unnecessarily …?

3. That your BFF is well informed about your relationship

Is it going well between you guys? Is he happy All right! Then he doesn't necessarily have to know that you owe the harmony to a certain extent to the fact that you seek advice from your girlfriend every now and then and she knows exactly what makes you two really tick …

4. How many men you have really slept with

What does a number say? In the worst case, it will only unsettle him. Rough information is sufficient – or do you want to know something from him in detail …?

5. That you think the service staff at your favorite Italian is pretty hot

Does she look like your sweetheart? It doesn't really matter: just don't tell him!

6. How your ex will really make you feel in bed …

Bed stories with ex-partners? They don't necessarily have so much to look for in a relationship. After all, there is another way to make it clear to your loved one what you stand for and what not …

7. What do you really think of his buddies

He loves to go around the houses with his boys, but when he tells you about it afterwards, you just think: Wtf ?! Let him have his fun! As long as it relaxes him and he behaves towards you after he has let off steam …

8. That you are actually texting mom – and not checking your e-mails at all

So that one thing is clear: Nobody finds it strange if you write to your mother 10 times a day and she calls twice a day! Isn't your problem that men just don't understand some things …

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