Capricorn, the astrological sign of people born between December 21 * and January 20, answers our questions about their way of experiencing love, seduction, in short approaching the sentimental field.
* The day may vary each year, depending on when the Sun enters the sign.
Reminder of the qualities and faults of Capricorn in general terms
Its important qualities:
- Quite reserved, if he is in a relationship it means that he will have taken the time to choose this person. His unions are often late (in age).
- He can be a real pillar in everyday life and provide wise advice to the loved one.
- He will always seek to motivate his partner to rise socially, because for any Capricorn social success (at least recognition of merit) is essential.
Its major flaws:
- He can be very straddling his principles (tradition, habits, etc.) and find it difficult to leave this rigidity aside.
- His partner will often be "hidden" from the world, as Capricorn doesn't like to talk about his privacy, which he protects. Unless his marriage can allow a social rise.
- He relaxes with age, the older he gets and the more, paradoxically, he appears "younger". Often her partners are older as well.
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Our expert in astrology, Elke Faraone, interviews Capricorn, to find out more:
Now adulthood, dear Capricorn, do you easily fall in love?
I can lose my mind for a second, not two! More seriously, I don't have much confidence in myself, whatever image I may give on the outside. And, as a consequence, the idea of pleasing another person is not easy to assimilate. It quickly cools the few heat that I can feel. But, like everyone else, I can obviously fall in love, except that I never lose my way. I always stay in control, which doesn't make it easy for "madness", but prevents me from embarking on an adventure that would prove to be perilous.
How do you seduce?
I rarely take the first step as I don't have a lot of self-confidence. If someone catches my attention, I'm not going to go the first time, it will take time. I often have a pretty cynical attitude – or I'll tease the other one to make them uncomfortable, that's one way to check their receptivity. I like to use humor because, contrary to popular belief, Capricorns have a lot of it! In doing so, I find the limits of the person and it helps me to know better who I am dealing with.
I don't try to put myself forward or brag about my possible successes, I introduce myself as I am, by talking about subjects that interest me and, above all, by trying to get to know the other. But I'm not made to discuss trivia, my conversation will always turn to something more important. I am also very attractive with my detachment, not that I purposely display a severe demeanor, but my "controlled" nature obliges me to do so a bit. Seduction takes time, sometimes a lot, which can tire suitors … But it's also a way of sorting out.
What do you look for in a partner?
Loyalty. It may sound cliché, but I will quickly gauge the person on their moral values and make sure they are compatible with mine. No matter how attractive a person is – I'm talking physical attraction – I'm definitely going to try to scratch below the surface, because I know a couple can't exist without a solid foundation and I don't want to. to waste my time. I'm also looking for someone who has an education, if possible, close to mine, not out of elitism, but because common tradition makes me more comfortable. I want someone who is as down-to-earth and serious as I am. I don't think I'm too demanding …
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What are the faults that you cannot tolerate in your partner?
Immaturity: Someone who doesn't think about the consequences before taking action and who doesn't obey any law, that would be terrible. Idealists also depress me, those who imagine that their "wish" will come true without realizing that work is the only cure! A person who acts on impulse, even if it ties in with what I was saying before, is really unbearable to me. I’m not against gusto and an energetic partner can give me that momentum that I am struggling to display; however, if it turns into impulsiveness, it won't! There is also one flaw that irritates me deeply: being late. If the person I have to spend my life with isn't on time, that's going to be a really big problem eventually. I'm kind of "grafted" to a watch, I'm very tight on schedules … And I need the other to do the same.
Marriage, what is your opinion on the subject?
Marriage seems respectable to me. I find it consistent to formalize a union, whatever it is. I am not under the illusion of believing that this will guarantee it in the long term, but if I were to get married, I would always do it by betting on life. After that, I don't especially dream of marrying someone, I don't need that to feel fulfilled as a human.
How do you cope with the breakup?
Very bad. I do not get into any relationship without the idea of sustainability, so if there is a break, I will inevitably blame myself for making a mistake, getting involved without thinking or seeing nothing coming. In short, my first reaction is to overwhelm myself with blame. Then, being of a demonstrable nature, I will accuse the blow more coldly and start to resent the other, in whom I will obviously find every possible fault. I'm finally going to take it out on the whole world … Which is annoying, because before I can trust anyone again, a lot of time might be going by.
Does celibacy scare you?
Capricorns and Virgos are said to be at the top of the podium in this area. Certainly, celibacy is not pleasant for anyone, as it can be frustrating having no one to confide in sometimes. However, I do not suffer that much from the situation. I am a very independent person and I have adopted the adage: "Better to be alone than in bad company". Also, I won't fall into depression if no one shares my life. In addition, loneliness is not foreign to me, I even have a certain appetite for it. Silence and calm allow me to recharge my batteries and put distance between the world and me, I really need it. What can be difficult in celibacy is above all the social pressure that goes with it, because it often needs to be justified, but other than that I don't suffer any more. I do with.
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