Whisper: This is how it feels when the partner is the wrong person for you

We all would like to find her, this one, true love that gives us the feeling of having arrived and with which we can walk hand in hand through sweet and sour. However, most of them have to search a bit and have one or the other relationship with people that is wrong for them and someone else exactly right. Sounds simple in theory, but it is not in practice. Because even if we know that the person on our side doesn't suit us, this knowledge can be extremely painful and a way out of the situation far away. At "Whisper" numerous people have written about this bredouille.

Men and women tell: This is what it feels like when your partner is the wrong person for you

1. Like war

"Being with the wrong person feels awful. I haven't had an apartment since I separated from my husband, but I'm happier than before. I can find a new home, but there was no peace with him."

2. Not understood

"Sometimes I think my partner is the wrong one for me. We were very good friends, but he just doesn't take me seriously if I want to be taken seriously."

3. Unfaithful

"I slept with my best friend. He's single, I'm not. Maybe I'm with the wrong guy."

4. One-sided

"I know that I am with the wrong woman. If it is not particularly important to her to see me, I can hardly wait. I wish she would feel what I feel."

5. Scary

"I know I'm with the wrong guy. But I don't dare to break up because I'm afraid of not finding anyone and staying alone."

6. Constricting

"I made the wrong decision and now I'm in a relationship with the wrong person. I feel like I'm suffocating under the pressure. How do I get out of there?"

7. Overlook

"I think I'm with the wrong guy, although I thought he might be the right one. But since we've been a couple, he's just been ignoring me."

8. Overwhelmed

"When you're with the wrong person, everything is complicated."

9. Not right

"I'm more happy to hear from my best friend than from my partner. I'm afraid I'm with the wrong guy."

10. Torn

"I fell in love with the right one, but I'm with the wrong one. I don't have a plan for what to do because I don't want to hurt her."

11. Like a mistake

"I was in a relationship with the wrong person for seven years. I never want to make this mistake again! I am sure that as soon as I meet the right person with whom it speaks, I can overlook the little things."