Tell the partner everything about yourself? In theory definitely right! But in practice …
In a relationship, you have to trust the partner one hundred percent and therefore you can share everything with him. So far the theory. But in practice, it sometimes seems a bit more complicated – as these examples from the anonymous online confession platform ” Whisper ” suggest …
Tell 12 couples: I should never have said that to my partner
1. That should (!) But he get along …
“I regret that I have told my friend, with whom I have been living for almost three years now, of my sexual past, it is destroying our relationship.”
2. Talk about it ?!
“Sometimes I regret telling my friend that I have bipolar disorder and since then he’s behaving funny to me and that’s killing me.”
3. Promise is promised.
“I want to break up with my girlfriend and regret that I promised to help her raise her child.”
4. Concealment would not be an option!
“I sometimes regret telling my friend that I’m pregnant, and I feel he feels obligated to stay with me.”
5. One does not have to fulfill every (absurd) expectation.
“I regret having confided to my friend that I’m bi, now he’s expecting us to have a threesome, I do not like sharing my husband.”
6. How about wedding ?!
“I regret having told my friend that I would like to wait for sex until we get married, but now I’m ready, but it’s out of the question for him.”
7. Stupid feeling …
“I regret having told my friend that I’m poor, now he’s always going to pay for everything.”
8. Make amends ?!
“I regret that I said to my friend in anger ‘I hate you.’ Now he no longer believes me when I tell him that I love him.”
9. How things can change …
“I regret that I told my friend I do not want to marry or children, because now it’s exactly what I want: I want a family with him.”
10. Oh dear!
“I did not really want to tell my boyfriend that I’m on treatment for depression, but I did, so now he’s commenting on everything I feel, ‘tell that to your therapist.'” If only I’d told him! ”
11. Sponge over it and look forward!
“I finally found the courage to break up with my boyfriend, he just wanted my body and sex, and I regret having ditched him and told him that I love him.”
12. You do not have to know everything …
“I told my girlfriend that I would like to kiss a certain person – but of course I would never have done that, I thought I would do the right thing, to be honest … now I regret it.”